are u a virgin if this happends?

Okay.

I am his girlfriend and yes I did have oral sex and yes I do think that you are still a virgin if there is no penis entering the vagina.

so haha Nick!

I win.

lol.

all's fair in love and warr.

:]

The definition of a "virgin" varies. To some it's whether your hymen "Cherry", has been broken, either by fingers, a penis, or anything else. Others think that if the vagina comes in contact with a penis at all, like even having it rubbed on the outside of the vulva.

Having been raped by my first boyfriend, some would say I was no longer a virgin after the act. I struggled with the question of, "Am I a virgin, or not?" I decided that since I never agreed to the act, I was still a virgin spiritually, even though not physically.

My own personal definition is consentual intercourse, where the penis is fully inserted into the vagina when both people have consented to the act.

By your story, I'd say absolutely she's a virgin.

Hope this helps!

~C

You are wrong! A virgin in someone who has never had vaginal sex, so if your penis went inside her vagina then you are no longer a virgin, A Hymen ( cherry) can break doing many things, riding a bike, tampon, riding a horse. Lets say it broke while riding a horse that doesnt mean she lost her virginity to a horse. You ARE a Virgin!

that is stupid first of all you need to be penetrated by a male to have your virginity taken, and secondly cherry popping is so middle school. there is nothing that supposed to pop when you lose your virginity it sounds like you guys are young and listening to younger peers. i heard this myth when i was probably your age and if you bleed when you have sex something is wrong and you need to be seen in the hospital. so that is a really stupid myth that needs to stop.

Depends on your own personal view. Some people see any sexual contact as losing virginity, others go by penis-in-vagina only.

Yes. You are still a virgin until you have sex:D

yes your a virgin. Only time your not a virgin is if a man's penis goes in your vagina or if you make a mistake with a tampon! so yes she's a virgin.

Hope i helped!

well it depend how you see it as if you have not have you hymen broken you are technically a virging but also includes innocence so if you are having oral then you are not longer innocent so that will not make you a virgin as in your mind you are already not a virgin so it can be both yes and no depends how you think

i would say yes you are a virign.... and when you get eaten out.. you wouldnt have your cherry popped... unless they were fingering you as well.... but yes i would still consider you a virgin.

Most people count losing one's virginity as penis in vagina. So if there's none of that then by most standards she is.