What's the deal with this guy?

Figures you're not interested?

Found someone else?

Shy?

Moved on?

All possibilities........the good news is YOU have the ability to find out........TALK TO HIM!!! Ask.......tell him you'd like to get together with him.......his behavior may change.

Luck

He's a guy. It could be that he didn't like you. Just saw you as a friend and maybe you did something to indicate otherwise. Maybe he's waiting for you to call him since he did it all in the beginning. Being you guys talked for hours at a time, CALL HIM back. If you really like him, ask him out, NOT ON A DATE!, just to go out AS FRIENDS. Go out for a snack, go walk around the mall, walk to the park. First, go as a group of friends, then go alone. See if he really is into you. Give it 5-6 months of solid friendship building, then see how he acts then compared to now. (Does he make time for you; does he laugh with you; does he look at your eyes; does he look at you constantly, etc)

It's hard to know without asking him. I would ask him if anything is up that has kept him busy. If there isn't any good answer, or if it is a vague one, I would leave it alone. If he's not interested, it won't do any good to push the issue. If he is, he will come back around in his own time. Meanwhile, I wouldn't worry about what you can't control. Find other people or other things to do to keep your mind occupied so you won't be worrying so much, or be tempted to "pester him". My opinion is to do more than that will not help your situation.

There's this nice expression when a dude behaves strangely: "cherchez la femme". It means, "look for the woman". The presupposition is that most often there's a woman involved somehow, when a man acts funny.

Now that's not much of an answer, but it's all I can give you, since you provide so little detail on this dude, your relationship and so on.

he probably wants something more than just a phone pal

maybe he wants to be in a relationship where he can physically be with you or a girl in general, in person instead of just talking on the phone

if you don't see each other, maybe it's best for you to let him go

you'll find better guys who can be there for you too

The guy is probably to busy and is trying his hardest, or maybe hes moved on and passably likes another girl. but nobody really knows. i wouldn't worry about it hun, hell come around besides i used to go through the same as you and you know what i did? i decided to stop dating. i though that taking time for myself would repair my heart because dating someone or spending time on someone would just make me more depressed. Now i know its hard but when you think about it he will come back to you. Make him jealous. but don't stalk or irritate him. that makes it worse. And you know what the best of my waiting did for me? It found my perfect man and i wouldn't change him for the world.

P.S. 95% of high-school relationships (if you are in high-school) are just high-school relationships. move outside the box, follow someone that inspires you!

Mayb he jst got board for the moment, or busy living. Whatever yo do don't let that affet you to the point were he can see!!! Shake it off... He'll be back!

After texting you and calling you a lot, he probably just figures you're not interested anymore, or he's really busy lately, or it could also be possible that he's interested in another female.

Sounds like you two were meant to be. You should maybe ask him out. If he's a nice, hot, smart, and doesent want to get into your pants kinda guy, then maybe you should consider him.

He might not be as interested in you as you are in him. That or has he may just be really busy with other things lately. Why not just ask him yourself.