relationship problems need to save relationship?

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Look if the chemistry is there, sex with never be a bore or a chore, so if the fizzle has died that early in the relationship (give a 2 year mark for some fizzle, as from what a Samantha Jones Sex in the City type friend has told me) then maybe the pure chemistry isn't there. Look not all of us find our soul mates, but when we do, it's a surprise. And there may be more than one soul mate or kinderd spirit for each of us. In any case one of mine turned out to be a man whore and the other one is gay. Life is just full of surprises! And an open relationship is sooo Hollywood. Don't do it. It will create jealousy, rifts, and secrets, and tear apart the relationship even worse, and what about STDs. You are beyond the point of let's date other people. Unless that is what you both want, but don't say I warned you. There's always couples therapy.

Try to avoid arguments at all cost. I had this same problem before. I just tried to pick the arguments that were worth arguing over. Like cheating or being disrespectful. But if it is a simple disagreement, learn to be the bigger person.

What I started doing was just being quiet and not saying anything. I stopped arguing back. When I see that an argument is about to start, I just shut up and listen. I don't give him the silent treatment. I just say, okay or alright. And go about my business. This is hard at first but it gets easier over time. I know it is sometimes hard not to argue back and you will be so mad that you cannot just be quiet, but eventually you will calm down and you avoided an argue. And most of all, don't be embarrassed or have too much pride to say I am sorry. Even if you aren't the one that started the argument. You can just say, I am sorry for arguing with you today.

Hope this helps. Good luck

The thing with long relationships is that you get to know the other person so well that you know what to do to push their buttons and really get on their nerves. Sometimes you have the tendency to argue because they may be around all the time or you feel thats someone you can vent your anger on.

I think try not to argue so much because it would get tiring after a while and do stuff you guys both enjoy.. or try new things.. like eating at different places.. just small stuff like that can bring something new to the relationship so the focus won't be arguing so much.

I think the best way is to try limiting discussions of controversial issues. You have not to think that you're always right, give a place to openmindness. If you believe you're right, try to prove it in a gentle, non conflicting manner. You want to save your love, be romantic.

Take some spelling classes.