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Don't know what I should do?
I am currently talking to a girl and think i am starting to fall for her, but here is where it gets out of hand. She has a boy friend (for 4 years), but she has told me she likes me and she even spends more time o the phone and stuff with me than she does him. She has cheated on him before, but after he cheated on her. She has said she gets bored with guys easily, and i think all she wants is just to have sex, which is not what I'm looking for. I dont think he will break up with her boyfriend, four years is a long time, and if she does break up with him to go out with me can i even trust her? So should I, stop talking to her and not get too involved before i get hurt or keep talking to her and see what happens, I mean some people change so why cant she.
Sorry for the long story, any help would be appreciated.
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
She can't change because she is set in her ways and she already told you that she get bored easily and that's why she is talking to you because she is bored with her bf but not enough to leave him. I don't think she will leave her boyfriend and if she do she might do you the same way she did him. I think you should leave her alone before your in too deep and grow strong feelings for her and than end up hurt.
- 1 decade ago
if shes been with the guy for 4 years she doesn't get tired of boys easily, shes still with him!! i would stop talking to her unless you want drama from her boyfriend, trust me i don't think she will leave him just like you said 4 years is a long time & after 4 years of a couple being together they don't talk on the phone with each other as much as they did in the beginning of the relationship and if she were to leave him it just shows you what she would do to you
Source(s): im a girl i know these things - 1 decade ago
I think that you should stop while your ahead. She has a boyfriend and if she is bored with him she should break up with him not run around with other guys. Besides how do you know you are the only other guy, she talks to and hangs with besides her boyfriend. You won't be able to trust her in the end because if she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you.
- MagsLv 61 decade ago
She very well could like you, but you need to ask yourself...why hasn't she already left her boyfriend??...clearly she isn't happy in her current relationship, so you could be a little something extra that makes her happy...she may have no intentions of leaving her b/f for you...you need to really figure out what she wants by talking to her...or you could cut her off and that could help determine what her intentions are...if you all were going to have a relationship, she would need to earn your trust and vice versa...good luck to ya!
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- 1 decade ago
No you can't trust her...
She wants someone for sure like her 4 year bf..
Either go for sex or let her be...
and don't be a ""fool"' and wait for her to change just for you..
There are other girls that you will probably like more and you won't have that kind of trouble you put your self in now......
