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Is it normal for you not to like a guy once they get a girlfriend?

i liked this guy a lot until he got a girlfriend...well im not sure if i still like him...but i was wondering if it is normal to not like this person becuz he got a girl now

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like...im not jealous of her becaus eshe is really ugly but it just makes me sad to walk behind them holding hands....and my friend said she talked to him and he said he doesnt go out wit her but i think my friend was just saying that cuz he nd the girl are obviously going out...but he came up to me in the hall and asked if i was mad at him like just outta nowhere and gave me a hug.......im so confused right now.

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    It's not odd...after all he's unavailable so why waste energy desiring or pining for something that's out of reach (at least for now)?

    What benefit in continuing to like (want) him when he's with someone else? That's just an exercise in frustration. Maybe if he becomes single again your interest will reignite...if you are still single then also.

  • 1 decade ago

    ya because your conscience is telling you you dont really have a chance anymore(think of that in the nicest way possible) but feelings are kinda messed up and complicated so dont worry about it

  • 1 decade ago

    I think u had a crush on him. I guess it's still normal but i think its mre of a feeling of jealousy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    VERy NORMAL!!! You realise now that he doesn't like you and likes his gf..and you dont want to be with someone or like someone who doesn't like you back...TOTALLY NORMAL!!! We all want attention-hungry human beings!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    well it sucks to know he likes her more than you... but i get over it. usually they don't last.

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