I think I'm dead inside...?

Question

Like most male teenagers, growing up I was pretty obsessed with the female sex...there were always girls who had that 'something' that had me captivated...I'd love spending time with girls and loved the chase...

I'm now 24 and after a few failed relationships haven't had a girlfriend in a while...this is mostly because I haven't met any girls who have that special quality (whatever that might be) that gets me excited to be with them...there have been a few really hot chics who have shown interest recently, but I just feel like 'meh'...take it or leave it...

I can't fault these girls...and I'm definitely sexually attracted to them...but I don't want a girl for sex...i want a girl to share life with, but i don't seem to know what i want...any one else feel the same way...'dead inside'?

maraschino · Accepted Answer

You're not dead -- you've finally matured!  You no longer see women as a challenge and sex as the prize.  Don't be discouraged...many women would actually find your approach very refreshing and welcomed.  You'll feel "alive" again when you meet that one girl who sparks your interest with her intellect and wit.  One who not only turns you on physically but mentally and emotionally.  Soon you will realize that life has begun anew...

captain · Answer

i do i have different personalities like i can name em and they argue it's weird i kno but yea i have that feeling sometimes like you want to find the perfect girl but you don't really know what perfect is

Super Bruin 2 · Answer

Ah, finally your hormone surge has haulted.

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I think I'm dead inside...?

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