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Help! I'm not sure anymore!.....?

We met by chance when he almost ran over me with a bike in Colorado. We started talking and realized we lived near one another in Kansas City, KS we soon started dating after that and had a great first year.

But we soon realized that we are complete opposites, we don’t share any hobbies and have different points of view on everything and it cause a lot of fights betweens the two of us. We have been together for 4 years now and broke up and got back together about 7 times now. Which I think is a bit much. The last time was the first time for me to leave him; we got back together because he begged me and did a large number sweet thing to change my mind. But it just doesn’t feel like it use to any more.

I know that every person I date I’ll just compare to him and that I don’t really feel like being with anyone else.

But I can’t continue with all the drama that comes with the relationship. I don’t know if I can handle it with everything else going on in my life. (Full-time student, Full- time job, family problems, health problems, etc.)

I know I can live with out him but I don’t I if I want to….

I need some other point of view. What is your opinion?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think that if you can see yourself without him and you don't feel happy anymore then it's time to move on. 4 years is a long time and it will be hard, but if you don't end it soon you'll end up resenting him, and making it harder on yourself.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Looks like you are answering your own question. If there is that much drama ( 7 times breaking up and getting back together ), you should move on. It sounds like the guy does everything to make you hate him and when you leave, does the exact opposite to try and win you back. Too much drama. Move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Love is a very strong and powerful word if you love him try to work out

    by having different sex positions or going out to eat more you know something more romantic something exciting that the two of you never done before maybe even a vacation

  • 1 decade ago

    Any relationship you will fight no matter what. Its a part of marriage you have been with him for a while.

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