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how do i gain my girlfriends satisfaction?

i have a sweet girlfriend. i always loved her and i still do. wanted to be hers one day but this year was the hardest year in our relationship. iam a very bussy guy going fulltime to school and work. so does she. but recently i feel like she is never happy with me. i do anything to gain her satisfaction but she always tells me that i put her last. i even took her to her favorite singers concert on her birthday. bought her the gift that she always wanted to have. now u tell me if iam bad or she is just wrong. tell me what else left to do.?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    buy her a goat. goats solve everything

  • 1 decade ago

    There's one thing you should keep in mind when trying to gain her satisfaction: It's the little things that mean the most. Leaving a love note that says something sweet, getting her flowers on an average day. Those things are what gets a girl's heart fluttering. You're not a bad boyfriend, I can tell. But this girl is just a little harder to please. If nothing else works, then tell her how you feel, and remind her of how important she is to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes, a thing like this isn't anyone's fault. When two people are together for a while, they find out that they really aren't compatible with each other. For example, when you are near her does her presence bother you, or do you feel as if your presence is irritating her? Also, as you stated, you both work and go to school full time. This is already a huge emotional and equally physical strain. The best thing to do, like or not and as painful as it may be, is to take a break, distance yourself from one another. The phrase, absence makes the heart grow fonder, is entirely true in this case. Like I said, it may hurt, especially if she moves on first, and...at the risk of sounding totally cliche, if you love her let her go, and if you were meant to be you'll reunite. Also, your education and your job should be high on your priorities list. Take a breather. You'll see.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, suffice to say is that you're not the problem, it's her. She's probably misses you and wants you to focuses on your school work and your job. So, try to spend time with her over the weekend when free time. You don't have to take her out to places, just order pizza and watch a good movie you both enjoy. That's what you should do. I'm sure she's concentrating on her schoolwork and job as you are. With a busiest time of year, I'd say have a Christmas time together alone and do something special from your own heart. I'm sure she'll appreciate it! I'm going through the same thing only no boyfriend...so hang out when free time with her. Do it! ^^

    Source(s): My experience
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  • 1 decade ago

    I do know how your girlfriend feels, my fiance works and goes to school full time, and I used to feel the same way your girlfriend does. We sat down and had a long discussion about it, and I found out how he felt about it, and i realized how stressed he was all the time, and how he used all the energy he had on making me happy. After that, I couldn't possibly feel like he was putting me last. Talk to your girlfriend, tell her how you feel, let her express her feelings, and explain to her that you're going to school and working so that you can give yourself a good lifestyle, and if you want to marry her someday, mention that it's also to give her a good lifestyle someday. If she still feels like she's being put last, then she's being unrealistic.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It all depends on you .. how you make her feel comfortable when she's with you .. just be yourself and never act like a wussy .. also keep gifting her something unique on special occasions ....like on her birthday or on Christmas.. Christmas is round the corner so probably you can gift her something that captures her interests.. also give a personalize touch.. gift her an ipod loaded with her favorite songs or write a scrapbook for her.. all the best...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    U r so sweet! She is probably just stressed because she goes to school and work full time!

  • 1 decade ago

    thats girls for ya...i think u should tell her how u feel and if all else fails try to take her out to eat somewhere she loves.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask her if she wants to go out for dinner ask her where? when? and leave everything up to her woman like to feel in charge and they love romance

  • 1 decade ago

    might be that time of the month when she is just emotional.i get crazy on my time.just see how she is every week then you will know when it is that time she is going to get emotional.

  • 1 decade ago

    Invite me over for a threesome. We can bombard her senses with attention and let her know how much you love her. It really works or I give a full refund.

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