I need help with a guy problem..... I need as much answers I can get.?

You can't force people to love you. So do the benefits thing and see what happens or just move on.

do NOT give in to just the benefits.

i highly doubt that he really likes you and IS probably only saying that if a relationship happens, it happenn, but not meaning it.

at first i was thinking about not talking to him for a couple days lol and just 'testing' him, because if he misses talking to you or something, then maybe he will call you or something and just want to talk and then he might realize that he does like you or something.

but if he really doesn't try to contact you at all, and just lets you not write him back or call him back or whatever, then he obviously doesn't care and he will just move on to the next girl.

...but i highly doubt this is healthy advice, because i am very malicious lol, but yeah... you should probably just move on.

This guy just wants a hook up, that's it. A relationship will never happen, he's just saying that because he knows that's what you want. So if he plays like it might happen so you'll stick around. Find somebody else. You can do so much better.

Tell him that you will be his friend,but for the benefits that is off limits. If he can not accept that answer he really doesn't want to be a friend. He just wants someone to have fun with when he wants to.

Sorry but it sounds like he just wants the benefits and doesn't want a relationship.

Girl get out! I truly believe he just wants you for the hook up. If he's not willing to make the commitment, then he's not worth your time.

I would just tell him that you are not like that and that you like him and want a relationship and if he just wants a piece of @$$ there are plenty of women working corners for that.