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My boyfriend wants me to go on vacation with him and his family... Do i go?
I've been datin this guy for three months. . . I really really like him (maybe even love) but i don't know if im ready to spend two weeks with him and his family on a ranch two states away from my family. . . please help!
28 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I take it you've met his family - do you like them, do you think they like you? Do you think you could stand 2 weeks with them? Personally I wouldn't do it as if anything went wrong i.e disagreements etc then it could make it hard for you and ur bloke's relationship. Also you don't want to get in an arguement when you're a long way from your family and your home. I'd wait until you've been together a bit longer and go away just the two of you.
- rachie☆Lv 41 decade ago
Spending 2 weeks with his family when you've been dating three months? Yikes. I'd pass it up until you get a little further along in the relationship.
- 1 decade ago
I say Go.
The more you get to know his family the better and it will improve your connection with your boyfriend.
I was in the same situation a while ago. I decided to go and had a really good time with my boyfriends family. I still called my family everyday and updated them so it was cool. Go for it :)
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- 1 decade ago
u should go, like to spend some alone time with him and his family and stuff, the best thing to do is to make a connection stronger with the family if u think that this is the guy that you think you want to spend the rest of your life with.
you may even have fun!
- 1 decade ago
If you don't want to go, then tell him..I know it maybe be hard, but gurl if he cares about your feelings and wants then he will understand. You should never ever be forced to do something you don't want to do in a relationship.If you don't want to go, then tell him sorry ,but you don't want to leave your family just yet, but maybe later we can all go somewhere..I think it would be a good idea if you went though because ya'll might have fun and his family could like you more!! just don't go if you don't want to..I'm not even sure I would want to lol
- 1 decade ago
You don't say how old you are, so a lot depends on that. I would not want to stay around his family for that long. If they get tired of having you around they could end up disliking you which could cause long term problems in the relationship.
- &Presley;Lv 41 decade ago
it depends on how old you are hun, if your a teenager i suggest no would be the answer your to young for that. Coming from someone who is a teenager to the answer would be no, 2 weeks is a long time to be away from your family too. it all depends on how much time you r really willing to spend with this guy......
- Anonymous1 decade ago
u gonna decide like this 2 weeks without ur bf or 2 weeks without ur parents and ur family and friend,if ur really in love with that guy go for it but if u love ur parents more stay there,i would stay with the parents!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Free vacation! Go, even if it's just for the time away from your parents.
- 1 decade ago
if you dont want to go just say that you have to visit family in the two weeks and say youve already made plans etc