I Feel Horrible...I Love Him!!?

By all means, tell him. Tell him before he gets out, so you know what the reaction is going to be while there are still bars between you. He sounds like the kind of person who might react with violence. You may need to cover your own butt. If he finds out from someone else do you think you would be in physical jeopardy?

Get up front with him, get rid of the guilt, and get ready to protect yourself.

I think honesty is a key building block of any relationship. But if you could sleep with someone else, it's means that your relationship is over, Sorry! If you tell him, you will speed up the process! I'm not sure what racial breach mean, but people coming out different after jail. Don't risk it !(Remember he was in jail, because he committed a crime!!! ) Don't tell him anything!

By the way, you can not say that you Love somebody after something like this! Use words carefully, you may like him. Love is a greater feeling! It doesn't matter how much you drink if you love someone you will never betrayed him or her, so I'm not judging but you shouldn't be drinking with some guys!! While your boyfriend away.

I'd break it off. You've both hit a very low point and who knows what kind of diseases you could have contracted from those two guys.

You'll feel even more guilty if you give him an STD.

Hun ive been through something similar. Me and my man of 3 years were on a lil break. Ive never done **** with another guy since weve been together but we were going through some tough **** and my best friend at the time (who was a guy) was there for me through it and we started hanging out alot and i ended up sleeping with him, next day i saw my man of 3 years and treated him like **** cause i felt confused and like a *****. I havent seen my man for a while so it was wrong of me to treat him like that. I ended up telling him, it was best he knew i think and i never forgave myself for the way i treated him, and every time i think about i feel real bad,like hella shitty and horrible and like the biggest ***** in the world. I feel like he deserves way better. KARMAS really hit me these past few months and i think its because of that, everything turned upside down after that **** happened. Hope this helps you in some way. . . its just my personal story.

I'm sorry to say but u should feel guilty. I feel like a jerk for saying it, but it is true. And he will never forgive you for what you did to him. You are going to have to tell him sooner or later that you slept with them both. It's going to be hard to keep a grudge like that.

If your bf cannot find out and you like to create a relation with him you should be silent.

If you not think your secret can be kept or does not think you can create something together you should tell him.

It is always better to be the one who tells "mistakes" than letting it be said by someonelse.

Wait until he's out of jail and tell him. Say if he were to marry you and you still haven't told him you'll have guilt in your heart. He'll find out trust me.

Tell him. Its better for him to know. You shouldn't have to deal with the guile either. your brain doesn't work right when your drunk. If he doesn't forgive you than its his fault because well....he cant satisfy your needs while hes in jail now can he?

You were/are under stress, lonely, and when alcohol is added stupid things happen. Don't be too hard on yourself. Forgive yourself first, then move on. Don't tell him until you have forgiven yourself for this slip in judgment.

Good Luck to you!

Were the two guys at the same time? Look, I'm not gonna judge, just curious.