Long story - but genuine question. Is my best friend flirting with me? PLEASE answer thanks?

it sounds like she is.. if you aren't sure and really want to know.. ask her. after 11 years, you should be able to say.. hey.. you are acting different lately.. more flirty.. what's up? then, listen to the answer, don't put your own words in her mouth! good luck!

Everyones jumping to conclusions here, we have your side of the story and if we heard hers we might decide something different.

Let's look at this from a slightly different angle.

She's been married a year and that changes people, sometimes they feel trapped, sometimes they feel lonely, sometimes they crave the times when they were out with friends, single, free, having fun and none of this living with a man! lol

Your her closest friend and so your the person she trusts the most, because of this she can say things that she'd never, ever say to anyone else including her husband.

She can act around you with a confidence that your not going to ridicule or in any way betray her, your obviously a very good friend to her for her to trust you to such an extent.

She could (possibly) have some bisexual feelings and she's using you (her most trusted friend) to simply try them out, to test herself and use this safe enviroment to see if she does or could have a gay tendancies.

She could be questioning her sexuality, she could have been doing this for many years and only now does she feel comfortable enough to see if they are for real.

This does not neccessarily mean you wants to have sex or a relationship with you!

You should ask her very tactfully and gently about how she feels about you, you need to choose the right time and do it in the right way just incase your wrong and she's thinks that YOUR coming onto her.

You could approach is by talking about your friendship, that you've known her for a long time, etc.

You could even test the water on the gay subject saying you saw to girls togther, etc and see what he reaction is, leave open questions so she needs to give you answers.

Even if she is bi/gay and does have feeling for you doesn't mean it has to change your friendship in any way.

Having read your question a couple of times, it seems to me that both of you were not prepared for the disruption of your 11 year friendship that occurred when your friend married. Neither of you want to lose what that friendship meant to you so you are, in a way, flirting with each other in order to keep the flame alive. Try to be honest with yourself and with each other. Don't kill the feelings because you may both be glad of such a strong relationship at some time.

That guy's answer sucks. I'll make mine a little better.

No, you aren't imagining this. Your best friend wants to have sex with you but don't feel bad. Many girls have flings with their best friends. Most of that happens in college but I guess your best friend is realising how much better you are at understanding her, than her husband. I would confront her on the matter and ask her what's going on. After all, if you are as good as friends as you make it seem, she won't care that you have been suspecting this. If she really does want you in that way ask yourself this question, "Am I open-minded?"

It sure sounds like shes flirting with you - but by testing her in the way you are - its almost as if you're encouraging her unknowingly!! If I were you Id ask her straight out - tell her that you feel shes being a bit more than friendly and is she bisexual

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Yes.

Your friend seems to be a bisexual. I think she's definitely hoping that you'd join her in a threesome. It's not natural for women friends to act like her if they aren't bisexual.

she is definitely flirting with you... watch out!

yes id say she is,

yes she is... try keeping distance.. :)