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Survey: Men and Women... How would you answer these relationship questions?
I have to do a survey for school in which I have to get a man and women to answer these questions. I would like you to verify if you're a man or a woman. If you're single or dating someone, pretend that you're answering these questions about someone that you're about to marry. Warning: If you feel uncomfortable answering some of these questions, give an answer you would normally say. I'm not here to know your secret lives, I just want to know how men would answer these questions differently than women and vise versa. Ok, here we go....
Questions for Potential Mates
I. Is love and passion enough to sustain our relationship?
2. Do you want to have children?
3. What role does religion play in your life? Does raising a child a particular religion matter to you?
4. Do you plan on working? After we marry? After children? Should one of us be
home during the early years of a child's life?
5. Do you care how I vote?
6. Do you want pets? What type?
7. Would you submit to a blood test before we get married? Should we do so now?
8. What habits of mine do you find annoying?
9. Have you ever been arrested? If so, for what?
10. Where do you want to live?
II. If you are from another country do you eventually want to return to it?
12. Have you been married before?
13. Have you had a marriage annulled?
14. Have you ever been engaged?
15. If you were married did you even have an affair?
16. Did you ever "cheat" on a former girlfriend/boyfriend?
17. Do you have any children?
18. Do you believe in genetic screening?
19. Would you adopt?
20. Do you believe in a women's choice?
21. Would it be O.K. if my mother lived with us? How about my sister or brother?
22. How should we divide up the holidays?
23. How should we divide up household chores?
24. What are your career goals?
25. How often do you expect to engage in sexual intercourse/week?
26. Do you like to participate in oral sex/ giving? Receiving?
27. Are any sexual practices "off limits"?
28. Who should control the checkbook?
29. Should we have separate bank accounts?
30. If we have assets before marriage who should own them?
31. Do you respect me?
32. Did I ever embarrass you?
33. Do you enjoy the same things [ do?
34. Does it bother you that I am often late?
35. Do you like me to be compliant or assertive?
36. Am I ambitious enough or am I too ambitious?
37. Do you trust me?
38. Are you happy with my appearance?
39. Would you change anything about me?
40. Have you told me everything I need to know about you?
Sorry that this has to be long. I would really appreciate all answers you can give. Thanks :-)
Just want to say thanks to everyone who answered this question. I loved all your answers.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
1. If it's real, then yes.
2. Not really but if I ever change my mind, I'd want to adopt.
3. I'm not as religious as I should be. I'd probably raise my kids to respect all kinds of religions. When they get older I'll let them choose what ever religion they want to follow if they want to follow one.
4. Yes. Yes. Yes. The person with the least earning potential (me or you) should take care of the home.
5. No.
6.Yes. Dogs are awesome. Especially sheep dogs. I want a colie like lassie.
7. I demand it. Yes.
8. None. If you irritated me that much I would have left already.
9. No.
10. I want to have houses or condos in all of my favorite cities. Los Angeles, Barcelona, Tokyo, Seoul, Honolulu, London, Honkong etc..
11. If I have a reason to.
12. No.
13. No.
14. No.
15. No.
16. No. When I need a woman outside the relationship to satisfy my physical or emotional needs, then that relationship has outlived it's usefulness and needs to be terminated.
17. No.
18. With consent, yes.
19. If I did choose to have children adoption would be the preferred method.
20. As long as it's not my baby being aborted, I don't care.
21. If they don't have a problem with respecting the rules of our house, then I don't have a problem with them living with us, but they're not coming in our house and dictating their own rules. If they need to live by their own rules, then they need to live in their own place.
22. I don't care.
23. Whoever makes the least money, spends the most money on themselves, or pays the fewest bills will do the most household chores.
24. My ultimate goal is to buy or create businesses and hire people to run them while I travel the world with my partner in crime.
25. A minimum of 7 times a week.
26. I'm not a fan of oral but becasue her orgasms come first I'll give her whatever she needs to be satisfied.
27. Even if I'm not a big fan of it, if it's what she needs to be sexually fulfilled, then I'm pretty much down for almost anything. When you're having sex with only one person, you need to keep your mind open and be adventurous.
28. The person making the most money, has the best math skills, has proven themselves to be the most fiscially responsible and knowledgeable, has the best credit score and has the most financial self control.
29. Yes.
30. They should be kept separate. What you owned before stays yours. What I owned before stays mine.
31. Yes. I don't have personal or business relationships with people I can't respect.
32. No.
33. Yes. Sameness is what I look for in a relationship that's more than just sexual. Opposites attract but similar people tend to stay together longer. If you don't like being with yourself or someone like you then what does it say about how likeable you are?
34. Only when we have to be somewhere by a certin time.
35. It depends on which one of us will be the head of the household. There's only one Chief, one President, one King. Whoever is entrusted with the responsibilities of taking care of our family needs the support of the Queen, Vice President or board members so that they can do their job with out the added burden of their closest allies fighting them every step of the way. If I'm the head of the house I want you to be compliant, if you are the head then you need to be assertive. Our relationship needs to be one of cooperation not confrontation, because a house divided cannot stand.
36. When it come to being the best spouse, lover, bread winner or parent there is no shuch thing as too ambitious unless your ambition exhausts and stresses you out to the point that your physical and mental health ends up failing yourself, the people that love you, and the people that depend on you.
37. Yes. Our relationship never would have progressed pass the sexual stage if I didn't.
38. Yes. We never would have had sex if I wasn't.
39. No. I know from experience that you can't change people and even if you do make someone change they'll end up resenting you for it. If I didn't like you the way you are then I would have left to find someone that was already the way I wanted them to be.
40. I hope so, but incase I forgot something, I give you permission to run a background and credit check on me.
- 1 decade ago
1. Passion is enough to sustain a relationship. Love is a bonus.
2. Absolutely, more than anything! I want a girl.
3. Ugh. Religion is my curse. But that's an entirely different subject. I want to raise my child(ren) to choose for themselves. No outside influences, just whatever they think is right.
4. Work! Yeah, right...
5. Nah. As long as you actually know what you're voting for.
6. I don't mind not having pets.
7. ... sure.
8. I don't like it when you chew gum. The smell makes me throw up.
9. No. Nor do I plan to.
10. Somewhere cold and rainy.
11. Nope.
12. Nope.
13. Nope.
14. Nope.
15. Nope.
16. Nope.
17. Nope.
18. There's nothing wrong with it.
19. Yeah, if the kid comes from romania.
20. Absolutely.
21. No.
22. However you wish to divide them.
23. However you wish to divide them.
24. Career goals...
25. Uh...
26. Uh...
27. Uh...
28. Me, unless you really want to.
29. Yes, we should.
30. Sure.
31. If I'm marrying you, yes.
32. Most likely not.
33. Probably.
34. Yeah, but only when it's to important things.
35. Both?
36. Somewhere in-between.
37. Explicitly.
38. Yes.
39. Not a hair.
40. You know everything you need to know.
I'm female.
- 1 decade ago
Woman
1. Yes it is...trust is big too.
2. Yes...no more than two though.
3. Religion is not very important to me. Our children will be able to choose their own.
4. I plan on working all the time. Maybe take a few months off after having children. But i definately plan on going back to work.
5. We share the same values so most likely we will vote alike. But i wouldn't care either way.
6. A dog for sure. Maybe a few.
7. I would submit a blood test for marriage, but why do we need to do it now. Doesn't really matter.
8. Leaving the toilet seat up.
9. No i have not.
10. I would like to live somewhere warm...but it will probably never happen.
11. From USA.
12. no
13. no
14. no
15. never married
16. when i was 12. never again.
17. no
18. i don't mind it. it's useful to be prepared with medical attention
19. yes, only if i could not have my own children
20. yes, it's a women's own body and she gets to choose what to do with it.
21. I would be ok with it, it might just be a little awkward at first.
22. try and go to both families, at different times or days.
23. i'll do dishes. you take out trash. we'll both cook and do laundry for each other.
24. to have a doctorate in psychology
25. quite often, cant neccessarily put down an expected number of times, will probably change each week.
26. yes
27. not really.
28. joint control
29. yes and maybe one joint savings one
30. we both do now
31. yes
32. when you told everyone to listen while i was throwing up..i guess it's funny now.
33. yes
34. your not often late...early even
35. assertive
36. enough yes
37. with my life and heart
38. yes...but you need a hair cut
39. how often you shave...
40. yes...i believe so.
- heyyynowLv 41 decade ago
female, 20, single
I. Its part of it. Without it, it wouldn't work.
2. Yes.
3. I have my own beliefs, but I do not enforce them on people. And I wouldn't on my children, just morals.
4. I do. But I can work from home in my profession. A stable home life is important, especially in the early years/
5. No.
6. I love animals. So yes, but if it's a burden, I would not get one. Yet at the same time, I would not get rid of one.
7. I have no problem with that.
8. Snoring? ha!
9. No.
10. Anywhere, as long as I'm with you.
II. Of course.
12. no
13. no
14. no
15. -
16. no
17. no
18. no
19. yes
20. yes
21. Only if it was essential to their well-being.
22. Half and half.
23. equally.
24. Currently, in school.
25. Anytime!
26. No.
27. Orgies.
28. Not me!
29. Not sure.
30. You should.
31. Yes.
32. No.
33. Some, not all.
34. A little.
35. Compliant. I'm easygoing.
36. -
37. Yes
38. Yes
39. The reassurance that you'll always be there.
40. Yes
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