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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Do men make better husbands the second time round?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    heck, i oughta just about be perfect by now, what with the revolving door wives and all, lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's a good question.. it all depends on the guy and the relationship. The second time around he may have woken up and realized what was lost and all the pain he had to endure, realizing that marriage isnt easy but a continus working progress. Men generally are independent thinkers but work well on a team. I also think as a man matures he is more willing to do things like work as a team, communicate effectivly and learn to give up things for his wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    I do think my husband learned from mistakes in his first marriage and I also believe he is more committed to making our marriage work because of the demise of his first marriage, so I will say in his case yes better the second time.

    I was also married before and for the sake of my ex husbands new wife, I sure as heck hope he's gotten better at it!

  • 1 decade ago

    It depends on why he got divorced in the first place. If it was because HE was cheating then, no, I highly doubt he will stop the extra curricular activity, but if it was because they married young, or grew apart, then yes, they do get better.

    BUT it truly depends on both parties involved in the new marriage. If the woman is easy going and fun, and stays that way, and the ex-wife wasn't, then I think the chances of the marriage staying strong is very high.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It would depend on why the first one failed, whether he learned anything positive from that experience, made the appropriate adjustments to himself, is truly over the first wife (not in love, not bitter or angry) and whether he was capable of making a better choice the next time round.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Eh? Do you mean remarrying the same man you divorced? Or do you mean do divorced husbands do better the next time they get married?

    If you mean the first, I've done 2nd divorces for a few of these types. If you mean the second, I've done divorces for these types. I've done divorces on first time married people and even 5th time married people. But I still don't think I can answer this question.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Round what? In pro fighting Round two usually means that you are more tired and less likely to have improved very much.

    Brightest Blessings,

    Raji the Green Witch

  • 1 decade ago

    My man was a great man in our 10 years of dating (and it was the second time around for both of us)...but once we got married, he crashed and burned and it only took 8 months.

    So I'm not really sure if I answered the question!

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends on the man I suppose. I know I made better wife 3rd time around. And my husband is great first time around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My husband is generally best his first time around but sometimes 2 and even 3 is good.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think they do but it's mostly because they learned from their mistakes in the first one and they have lived with a woman and know what to expect. But I think it can be said for women too.

    Red

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