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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

Female masturbation...how do I get my orgasm to last longer?

i'm an 18 year old girl. i masturbate and every time i do orgasm, it lasts for a few moments and then its over. how do i make it last longer?

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how i normally do it- i lay down on my bed, take of my clothes, grope my breasts, lightly run my fingers over my stomach almost a tickle, get a really good picture or fantasy going in my mind, stick a long hard round lotion bottle in my vagina, start humping, continue until i feel like i'm about to orgasm and then i speed up, once i orgasm i hump even harder and faster to try to keep the orgasm going but it always fades away quickly

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    when you are about to orgasm, stop and let the feeling fade. then continue. every time you get close, back off. do that several times and then let it go. your orgasm will last longer and be more intense.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sadly, while the entire experience should be enjoyable and the feeling in your genitals should keep getting better and better as you contine your masturbation, the true peak of orgasm only lasts for a brief, fleeting few seconds. But even though it lasts just a short time, those few seconds feel so glorious it's still worth it. In any case, you're doing the right thing to grind hard into your c*m rather than back off, that way you wring every last drop of pleasure out of your orgasm.

    Otherwise, the best thing you can do is to try to build up the most tension possible...b/c really that's what an orgasm is, is your body releasing (in an intensely pleasureable event) accumulated sexual tension. The more tension your body has to release, the longer the orgasm may last and the better it may feel. So some of the ways to build more tension are to wait longer between masturbation sessions/orgasms--that's a tradeoff tho of quality/quantity, your c*m may feel even better, but of course you're not getting the good feeling as often. Or, as another answerer commented, you can do what's called "edging"...masturbate as you usually do, but when you feel you are getting close to your climax, back off, slow down, pull yourself back away from the brink. After your arousal/pleasure fade a little, then go right back at it. The more times you can do this--approach your point of no return, back off, then resume your humping and dial the pleasure/arousal back up and get back on the edge of c*mming, the better. but even just doing it once will make your c*m a lot better.

    It's not easy, especially at first...when you get close to that release and that explosion of pleasure, it's only natural, your instincts kick in and you grind harder to try to hump your way into c*mming and getting that good feeling and release. So if sometimes you can't hold back, don't sweat it, just enjoy the good feeling you do get. But try your best, when you feel it building in your crotch pull back, it's tough but it'll be worth it! If you have any q's don't hesitate to email me fbarnett68@yahoo.com.

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  • 6 years ago

    The first thing you want to do is make sure you're completely alone so that you can relax. Get into deep concentration on your fantasy. Mentally warm yourself up for a while. Maybe about 20 minutes or longer. Think of the things and type of person that turns you on the most. Start off slowly. Make love to yourself. Get your lubrication ready. Caress your breast and your clit while never breaking concentration on your fantasy. Then rub your opening slowly for a while before inserting anything to it. Keep reminding yourself that there's no rush. This is your me time. Tease your vagina first before getting into it. Make your fantasy person your sex slave. Keep telling your fantasy person to give it to you all night. Your orgasm should last longer doing this or become more powerful. Especially if you slow down instead of speed up when you actually ***. Squeeze on the object you are using a little and indulge in the pleasure. Take a few breaths when its over and slowly start up to *** again

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I find the solution to this is train your body to experience 'multiple orgasms'

    Don't stop after you've had your first orgasm. Keep stimulating yourself. Concentrate on the pleasure and train your mind to believe that you haven't had your orgasm yet (if your used to only having one).

    With a combination of hand stimulation and a vibrator, I can have like 5 orgasms in a row with probably 5 minutes or less in between them.

  • 5 years ago

    A simple way of lasting longer in bed is to just relax your muscles more. Learn here https://tr.im/HowToLastLonger

    Normally you'll find that your muscles get more and more tense as you approach orgasm. When you notice this happening just allow your muscles to relax again. By consciously relaxing your muscles you can delay orgasm by several minutes.

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