Love Issue...physical appearance?

Meet him as you are! I mean if he wants to be in a relationship with you then he will. He knows what's on the inside, and he knows what's on the outside.... well miss the extra weight.

I don't know if he rejects you, but if he does, then you are well rid of an immature man. People change, people's bodies change too.

You are listening to your gut, honey. You will be doing the right thing by cutting the relationship. First of all, any man who says things regarding hating overweight people has their own personal issues - like they need to grow up. Secondly, if he hates fat people, then he definitly will hate 'other' people -black, white, asian, pimples, etc.. etc.. Thirdly, when you find a man who you know won't care whether you gain weight or not, snag him and don't let him go till cows fall from the sky. There *are* some of those guys still left. Fourth, cut this foreigner loose before he comes to your area because you will not get rid of him if he sees you. He'll always contact you, always want to visit, heck, he might even kidnap you. No, my Yahoo stranger friend.

You're priceless and you deserve the best - ABSOLUTE BEST - God has to offer and if you're already questioning this dude, then you already know what to do. :o)

Not childish - it's YOUR life. Be as strong, firm, harsh, kind, lovingly, crazy as you want so that you get what you need in your life and you keep the bad out.

I am a guy as well and I did have a girlfriend that I started to date by just first contacting her on some facebook kind of thing. My first attraction is because of her physical attraction and that is the reason I made my moves toward her and after one week she invited me to her house in which I brought over some bday present and bday surprises. What I got is another suprise as I just realised that she is in deaf and hardly to speak to anyone. She can speak but I really need a lot of patience in handling her.

At first I kind of shock and dunno what to do but as I reconfirm myself that she might work for me I still pursue her with a lot of patience even though knowing the fact that she is a little bit disable in term speaking and listening abilities. We dated for quite sometime 7-8 months and finally broke up because of the personalities that is not fit with each other not because of the physical.

Therefore I think, if it is a real love between the guy with you then you have to retest him as real love usually accept who you are with all weaknesses and strength that you had. No matter of how many pounds you have gained if it is then, he might be worthed your love and attention or else find somebody else

Love by way of fact income basic terms buys fabric issues and is reducing in value besides. Love is extra powerful. And character by way of fact seems do no longer final invariably and character is what makes a guy or woman attractive.

I think he sounds like an ***. If something as small as a litle bit of extra weight could affect his feelings for you, then he is not the right one. But if you really love him and don't want to lose him, then try to lose some weight and when the *** does see ou explain that you are dieting and excersisng for him.

take a shot on him. if he leaves u cuz ur appearance, he wasnt the right guy for u in :( its the only way to kno for sure. b cuz not trying, u will be stuck wondering about the possibilities...

I think that if he is so shallow that he can talk to you on the phone and be your friend and tell you that it depends on your looks you don't need to worry yourself with him anyway.

If he really does like you, it wont matter :]

Its not childish though. It's a normal question. Just be proud of who you are, don't change for anyone

If he cant love you because you put on some weight then he's not a good guy. forget him and find someone who will love you for you

Send him a pic of what you look like now tho he sounds a shallow **** to me.