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what does it mean if i don't like people touching me.?
okay so I'm 19 and I consider myself pretty good looking. I am 6'2 low 210 muscular cuz i like bodybuilding and plan on competing. I don't think I don't have any problems with my confidence at all. I'm extremely outgoing and a lot of people say I'm hilarious but for some reason I'm either quiet or shy when I'm alone with a girl. I usually never make the first move and that has been a hinderance. I also get uncomfortable when people touch me and I'm not sure why. With my relationships I have found it hard to be intimate. I'm not a virgin but the only sex I've had is been quite detached. honestly i consider myself pretty soft excluding my somewhat tough exterior but all i want to do is cuddle with a girl. what is holding me back where I won't get close to somebody? I feel its something psychological but i can't quite put my finger on it. Is there something wrong with me? cuz i would like to say that i'm shy person but I'm really not. i really don't think its lack of confidence cuz i honestly feel like i could get any girl i wanted if i tried. so what is my problem? thank u outside observer.
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- holysocks1Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
I've got the same condition. I've always been told I've been the coldest female that any of my boyfriends have ever had. I think guys get away with it or it's just accepted. I wasn't lacking for parents, they are still married and I was never verbally or mentally abused. Whenever my aunts would hug me as a kid I'd always do the one armed hug not to seem rude.
The only thing that I can think that it may be, is because the closer you allow yourself to be to someone, the greater your chances are of being hurt, or being hurt worse. It's a self protection mechanism for me. I call it my invisible shield.
The only problem with it is... that if you don't allow yourself to be emotionally close to another person, you are also foregoing the highs of a relationship when you feel most complete.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I really don't think that anything is wrong with you, I more think that you were just not ready yet to have sex and you really didn't want to. I think when you meet the girl that you are ready to have sex with then you will be more willing to be intimate, or maybe something sexually happened when you were younger even if you cannot remember anything happens that doesn't mean it is not possible sometimes that kind of stuff happens and this is what it does to you. I have seen it before with a family member who was possibly touched by a grandfather of theirs but doesn't remember but there is all the signs just like this one.
- 1 decade ago
You don't have any problems. You just don't want people all up in your personal space. I mean its fine and all with your friends, but you get other people all like touch, touch. Hell that would put me in a don't touch me mood also
- 1 decade ago
i think u might be gay cuz this is the way my friend b!@#&$% started to act and feel right before he came out of the closet im not kidding those are the early signs of gayness
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
IT MEANS YOU DONT LIKE PEOPLE TOUCHING YOU,,,