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How can i get back into this girls life after not seeing her for so long?

It all started with a high school crush during my senior year; i sat next to this girl in study hall. She was a junior at the time; i would talk to her and ask her about her day or how things were going at the time. She was really cool; i would see her at the bus stop and when she saw me; she would approach me and give me a hug that was very strong embrace and then we would talk some more. Slowly over time i fell in "love" with her emotionally. Eventually, high school ended for me and i departed to college (university); i felt sad and had a light depression, but overtime i met new people and slowly i got over it, but i have always though about her. I would always wonder what was going on with her life or think about how far she probably is now at some college living her own life. Eventually, i transfered to another university thats in the same city that i live in (keep in mind that at this time i have almost completely forgotten about her). Then suddenly during that week that i moved back i had a dream that woke me up at 3 a.m, it was about her, we were talking and she pulled me towards her and gave me a simple kiss on the lips and held my hands. I woke up, not knowing how to confused; its like i still had feelings for her, but they were deep in my subconscious (yea i know it sounds weird, i have no other explanation for it though). Now heres the weird part, a couple of my friend goes to a community college thats not to far from where i live and i went to visit them that same week i had that dream, i go in there and i see pictures of all the teams they have. Guess who i see, thats right it her. It was weird, i was excited and sad at the same time. I felt like finding her and just telling her how i felt, but then i realized that 2 freaking years have gone by! which made me think that she probably has a boyfriend, new friends, and a new life far from that one girl i once knew in high school. I'm a sophomore in college, so she's a freshman. It's been a couple days of deep thinking, yet i'm confused. If you gotten this far into reading about my dilemma then please help me out. What should i do? should i somehow go up to her and just tell her how i feel? should ignore my feelings and hope that they just go away? I would like to start a relationship with her, but it's been so long since I've seen her that i'm not even certain that she remembers me. Any advice or words of wisdom are welcome. thanks to all who took the time to read this.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i seriously was almost in tears by the end of this question. It sounds to me that you really did care about her for that short period of time. And when you care for someone strong enough that the feelings come back TWO YEARS later, you don't let something like that go. I'm sure if I was the girl, I would never forget someone like you. If you really thought you were "in love" with her, im sure she felt close to that too. And the dream about her holding your hands and kissing you, that is the cutest thing that i have ever heard. If something as simple as a dream made you miss her that much, you have something good. & yes, she may have a different life now, considering it is two years later, but you never know it couldnt help to try. If she does have a new life then you can say, alright i just wanted to see how you were doing. & let it go for awhile. If her new life doesnt include a new guy, tell her alllllll about the dreams, any girl would love to hear that. I hope you find her and everything works out with you two. You sound like a great guy and no girl should ever pass that up!

    Source(s): past relationships.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Hmm what are your reasons 4 no longer wanting 2 be along with her 4ever? in case you in hassle-free terms choose intercourse then definite, yet why actual date in case you dont intend 4 it 2 bypass everywhere, form of a waste & rude 2 make her have expectancies you dont plan on assembly up 2.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have that same feeling about a boy in my grade school, I haven't seen him since 8th grade graduation...5 years ago.

  • 1 decade ago

    i say at least try to see if she remembers u or get a gf just think of her as the past

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