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how do u get a girl to like you if you just im her?

i dont talk to her much in school and i usually im her what to do

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Most people will tell you to be nice and ask her out and stuff. But, girls usually don't respond to these things until you've established that YOU are what she wants. AND YOU ARE. You just have to show her.

    Here's how:

    Tease her and play with her. Make fun of her in a playful way. Tell her that you're tired of her stalking you, and that you're not a piece of meat. ALWAYS be the first one to end the conversation, even if it seems rude to you. Trust me. She will respect that you're confident and funny. You can still have a normal conversation with her, just tease her here and there and make her think you are hard to get. Good luck.

    Oh yeah, and if she ends the conversation first, just say, "ok, see ya." Don't linger or try to get her to stay. You know, like you already have other people you're talking to. NEVER stop teasing and being hard to get. EVER! Trust me. When I was younger I used to IM girls a lot and got nowhere, just to find them with another guy the next day. But I learned how to communicate with them in this way, and it's what they respond to.

    Don't EVER tell her how you are FEELING. It will just scare her off. I know from experience, make HER chase YOU. Because you are desired by other girls, and she is just another one of them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if this girl were me and i were you, i would just give little hints and see how she reacts, when you think you are ready just tell her how you feel about her and what happens happens, girls just wanna know what guys are feeling

  • 1 decade ago

    just be sweet, and see how things go from there.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask her out

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