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How do i tell him how i really feel?
Me and this guy have been getting on really well lately, it feels as though we are going out but we aren't . i really want to get with him but don't want to get rejected. i've asked him twice before but both too soon. i don't want to push him away from pestering him but i really want to know where i stand. PLEASE HELP!!
I cant wait no longer i just want to know if there is a chance of us getting together in the future. i just want to know how to ask him.
i understand why he said it too soon cause it was like a day after i told him i liked him. but im sooo confused i really do want it too work.
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If you've already asked him twice before, I would let it alone...
Yeah I know it sucks, I've experienced it.
But you asking him again would be demeaning to you, you deserve better. And it probably wouldn't be worth it, because I doubt his answer has changed.
He knows you've been interested so if he likes you back, he should have no qualms in asking you out.
Otherwise, girl, I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who doesn't appreciate me. Next, please!
- 1 decade ago
I can relate to you about this. I would just give him some time to do him because boys are weird and are all like I dont want a relationship right now. Don't rush it and dont keep telling him how you feel cause the more you do than the more it will push him away. I have learned that from my best guy friend. When I liked him last year, I constintly would remind him and try to be all close to him than the more I did the more he pushed away. It's good to let them know but not to much. Just wait a couple of days than be like "I know, you must be getting tired of hearing how much I like you but, I have to know one thing. Is there a chance we can maybe together someday"
- 1 decade ago
Just wait. I know its hard because I'm going through the same thing. Its like you want to have some kind of knowledge that he's yours. And the security that he feels how you feel about him. But trust me, men move at there own pace. Don't push him because you'll only push him away.
Since you've already told him how you feel he knows, He probable is trying to understand how he feels about you. Girls love easy and guys love hard. So it might take him a little longer to realize how he feels but once he does, girl ya got him.
I have four older brothers and one of the things they told me is that they don't like to feel pressure. If he knows who he is, he'll know what he wants. I know its hard but patients truly is a virtue.
You can also reiterate your feelings towards him by how you act, not what you say. Showing how you feel sometimes gets better reactions than saying how you feel.
hope this information helped>. :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Two things are gonna happen if you ask. You'll get the answer you want, or you'll get shot down. If you don't ask, only one thing will happen. Ask. Sometimes its just time to cut the line and fish somewhere else.
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