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How do I get my boyfriend to stop?
Ok, so I am in volleyball and we have to wear spandex... I love wearing spandex because I like my legs and stuff. But whenever my boyfriend sees me wearing the spandex at the volleyball games he grabs my butt and calls me hot and then stares at my legs and says they're sexy.
Also, we were playing truth or dare and my boyfriends friend dared me to kiss my boyfriend on the cheek, so i did, but then my boyfriend pulled me to kiss him on the lips, and he kept trying to slip me the tongue!
And whenever we say goodbye we give a quick peck on the lips and lately he's been trying to french kiss me!
I don't know how to tell him to stop being obnoxious and making me uncomfortable? He didn't used to be like this but now he's acting like a jerk. All his friends are super sweet so I don't know where he's getting it from!
Please help!
13 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell him straight off. If he love you he would not make you feel uncomfortable. I do agree that is going way too aggressive.
Let him know that. If he continues then he isnt the right sweet guy for you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think you should tell him to save that action for later, he will feel that you want him and he will wait for you. The only problem with that is he is going to be expecting something later on that day. Communication is key, hope all goes well.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
he is obviously wanting more than you are ready for..so tell him you aren't prepared for anything more than his gentlemanly love and you will have to let him know you don't like him being that forward. it is normal for boys to want more than a peck...and some girls like assertiveness...but you don't sound like you are ready for sexual relations with him...but it sounds like he is at least interested...in gettin some. I would be cautious and tell him you won't be having sex with anyone until you are older...most teen age boys will come and go...write a list of all of the things you want and don't want in a husband and stick to it when dating. ;)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
obiouslly he's trying to rush the relationship when ur not ready so don't be afraid to talk to him and say that u wanna slow down ur relationship n if he really likes u he will understand and won't rush u into the relationship good luck :]
- 1 decade ago
tell him not to do in public, bc of how you feel about it. and if you arent ready for it when you are alone let him know. it wont hurt him to know how you feel about what he is doing. hope this helps
and if you get really mad when he slaps your butt, grab his crotch really hard and whisper thanks into his ears.
- 1 decade ago
all boy friends are dirty...they have dirty minds..i hate that.and well why not just french him back? if you feel your too young. say "dude stop trying to slip your tounge"
- 1 decade ago
Push him off and be like what are you doing?
Or let him know it's too soon...
Answer mine?
- 1 decade ago
just tell him that hes making you uncomfortable, and that you dont like it. if he really cares about you, he'll stop.
- 1 decade ago
haha. im guessing you're 13ish.
too young to have a bf maybe?
