Am I a lesbian? What do you think?

you sound bi-curious; not a lesbian.

Your boyfriend is right it would be cheating. I think if you have the guts finish with him ( well for now and if he can wait) and sort yourself out and try! the only way just remind that a lot of girls / woman have the same fantasy and they are not lesbians.. but try and find out i did it i came to the conclusion i was defiantly not thinking and dreaming are a whole different world it really is a fantasy and nothing wrong with that so just try..

You obviously have some exploring to do before you commit seriously to someone. I would tell him that if he's not willing to let you explore maybe the two of you should take some time apart so you can do it on your own. I doubt your feelings will go away, so if I were you, I would try being with a girl, whether it is in a relationship or just physically, to make sure you know what you want.

I would think that the fact that you have a boyfriend speaks volumes. It seems you've had a very active fantasy life and you really want to act upon it. I hate to say it, but that's the word porn addicts use when they can't satisfy their cravings for it....insatiable. It's always on your mind.

I know I'll get flamed for daring to say this to you, but seek out some good counseling. You could totally ruin your life with experimenting like you desire to IMO.

I think your soul is guiding you in your dreams. One of the worst things that can happen is to get married, have children, and then learn that you are and have been a lesbian. You need to find these things out before you ever even considering marriage. At least that way, you will will know and can make a wise decision when that decision eventually comes. Get this question you have out of the way as soon as you can and preferably before ever getting married. That way you can be true to yourself and to your future mate without any regrets.

You need to weigh this one out in your head.

You truly want to try it with a female. You bf says no. Now, you have your whole life ahead of you, to live, be free, learn who you are and what you want. And you have this guy who wants you to not "cheat". You owe it to yourself to try and experiment and if you are truly attracted to women then you might as well stop wasting time with a guy, but are you willing to risk him for that experience?

Also, there is physical then there is sexual attraction. Some bi girls are mainly into guys, they mess around with fem but date male. Every one is different though!

Ignore NudeN, he talks out of his rear with that copied and pasted answer of his.

You're not lesbian, if anything you're bisexual. And yes, a threesome is cheating. If you don't respect your boyfriend find another one who doesn't have morals.

I think your bicuriouse... your not a lesbain..just yet. your curiouse. maybe you should try it but either way ur gunna hurt your boyfriend if you cheat on him or leave him to try it. its a tough one. he sounds like he lovves you alot with the whole you and another women.. he doesnt want another women thing. I think this is something you need to figure out for yourself but dont take this on to long becaue you will end up hurting your boyfriend.

Everybody is born bisexual to some degree including you!

Most people choose their most dominant desire side, some deny their least dominant side, even to themselves!

Some, for social and/or family reasons, try to go with the least dominant side but end up having to admit reality!

I think you may end up ditching your b/f, I love both genders equally so love sharing, when I get the opportunity!

You are Curious and if you keep that sexy dreams and images in your mind. You will get it sooner or later. Keep it up baby!

I would be your slave just for Christmas!-very special gift-

If your asking then you aren't. But you need to decide for yourself are you a lesbian or are you Bi