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husband problem.... help?

he doesn love me what can i do to get over it?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Be strong. Why would you want to give all your love to someone who doesn't care. There's someone out there who will love you so much more then your husband ever did.

  • 1 decade ago

    First, accept that it's over. Second thing is you have to let go of any bitterness or anger that the relationship didn't work out. Third thing you need to do is to break off all communication with him. If you have circumstances where you have to stay in contact, then communicate only about what requires the contact. Keep yourself busy to avoid thinking too much. Find as much as you can to laugh at. Watch sitcoms, funny movies, stand up comics, read jokes, anything that will make you laugh. Do it alot. Lastly, allow yourself to meet new people and be social. Go out. Go out but don't drink alcohol.

    When you're ready, date again.

    Source(s): I found this advice and more at http://loveadvicefortheheartbroken.blogspot.com/
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    1 decade ago

    Do you nag him? Do you seem jealous of his friends? Do you have an intimate moment with him as often as possible ok lack of intimacy? Those are basic reasons why men stop loving a wife. Not much you can do. You can wait it out. You can change. You can seek counseling. You can spy on him to see if there's another woman. There must of been something you did for him to have stopped loving you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I also was convinced my husband doesn’t love me anymore until I had an affair. My husband changed completely (to the best)! I am definitely not advising to have an affair, but what I want to stress is that what men do/say and what they really feel is not always same. What makes you think he doesn’t love you anymore??

  • 1 decade ago

    Simple go to gym, workout and as you are working out thinking about how much of a dick he is to you. It worked for me to get over my ex g/f and now my body looks slamming, i feel attractive and over the B****.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he doesn't love you anymore then divorce him and move on with your life.

  • 1 decade ago

    find someone who does love you.

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