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boy help PLEASE im desperate =[?

theres this guy ive liked him for ages.

we are alway flirting but nothing more then jsut innocent flirting

when im around him i get all flustered and muddle up my words.. basically i look like a sped.

ive known him for about a year and a half and liked him about half of that.

when he shows other girls attention i get really jealous.

he seems to act nervous around me.. like more so than with other girls which makes me even more jealous...

and he is always in full deep converations with other girls but never me

how do i show him i care about him without acctually saying it?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well that is a easy answer. Just tell him. Yeah it may be hard and you may not like the answer but that is the only way to truly know. Life is too short and time is to precious to tip toe around. You are not made of glass, you can take his answer no matter what it is. Either way the coin lands you will have a answer and can start to make your next move. Sieze the moment!!!! Be you own answer!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You never want to seem desperate with a guy first off. If they know that you are overally obsessed and desperate, most likely, you'll scare them away. Do you try to be his friend when you're flirting or are you more focused on if you were to ask him out? Maybe if you act like his friend, you won't get so flustered. You can still flirt, just act natural. And don't get jealous. That is probably why he is nervous around you. He probably thinks he can't be just friends with you, which maybe that is what he wants, because you get overprotective with every girl he talks to. Try this advice and see what happens. Good Luck:)

    Source(s): Me, myself, and I
  • 1 decade ago

    Well keep in mind that he is not the only guy out there. If you have known him for this long and nothing has happened you might have to except the fact that nothing will. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but i suggest you go out with other guys for fun nothing has to be serious unless you remit your feelings for this other guy. You never know if this might make him a little jealous and realize that he may have to "stake a claim" on you and ask you out. However, this should not be your reason for going out with other guys. Also it helps to focus on this guys flaws anything and everything! Remember to keep a good attitude because desperate is not an attractive trait.

  • DSV
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    he does like you , this is pretty reasonable to say , but that said , if you dont ask or go further with it , he will be snapped up by someone else who does see his potential and qualities to , he probably doesnt say much or get into a deep and meaningful conversation with you because he mixes his words with you , as you do , which is a good sign that currently now , he is probably at the same stage , he wont ask and you wont ask because your both scared most likely , but the time is now , dont try and seduce him , he knows you , and how you are really , take the next step and make the next move , most likely it will be the best step you will make ..

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  • 1 decade ago

    hummm ...be smart ..u know that he knows that you like him , start looking down when ur speaking with him , less eye contact and smile ... breif talks , stop impressing him , be good and nice with people specially when he is around , dont make him feel your after him ...dont sound like a joker but innocent questions some times ..

    still if its not working then tie him with a pole and dance ....lol

    silly cant u handle a boy ....ur personality tells me ur run in to walls later on , see every body play with there own rules , i want you to be egoistic and never ever bed his attention , i dont know what u wear , how u speak , ur voive pitch ...lower it atleast with him , speak slow and soft , and laugh polietly , not hehahaha ...what else ?

    i know u will losse him , because desparets loose .soooo stop being desparate ..there r plenty of fish ...!

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to know him first.

    What is his favorite, like, dislike, habits, etc. As detail as possible.

    And if you think that you know enough, and you still like him, well, are you sure ?

    Cause if you know him, than you know the best way to show him that you care, right ? ha ha ha

    Seriously.

    OK.

    You can do like my wife do :

    one day, after few months relationship, a girl (my future wife) call me honey, by phone at first. It's look like an accident, but hey, it works, and that way i know that i'am special to her.

  • 1 decade ago

    a good way to see if he likes you too is to flirt with other guys around him...do the same thing that he is doing around you , see what he does....just a thought

  • 1 decade ago

    Desperate is never an attractive quality in anyone.

  • 1 decade ago

    ha yeah

    "send him a fruit basket"

    - chris croker.

  • 1 decade ago

    find out his zodiac sign, then we will c if yours is compatible.

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