boy help PLEASE im desperate =[?

Ok I really hate to tell you this, but you sound just like me when I was in middle school. I liked this boy and I was a complete mess around him..but here's the cruel truth: He is nervous around you because your muddling is making him feel awkward. He probably isn't that into you at all. Do you just talk to him in school, or do you hang out with him outside of school?

I'm 20 years old now and I have never successfully dated any guy that I crushed on this way. After I got to know them, I realized it wasn't worth feeling nervous all the time. What you need to do is just build up your confidence and go for a guy that is into you too.

Try to take a few deep breaths when you see him coming over. Talk to him like you would chat to one of your mates. Maybe tell a few jokes or talk about how much you hate this teacher or whatever. That will get the conversation going! If he has any particular intrests chat try to bring those into the converation. When you stutter try to laugh it off, you will soon get over it!

i had the same problem with my girlfriend. before we started dating. i was nervous and pretty much sounded like a sped. like you said. Lol

you could write him a note, and give it to him at the end of the day on a friday (if you go to school?) or you could maybe call him, and tell him that way. The best way to do it is just go right out and say it! Come on girl, show your guy that you like him. Get your awesome girl courage and tell him.

good luck!!!

Honestly, I'm not sure about him.

But I'm the kind of guy you could show even with a hug!

OR you could do what my friend did! lol.

Bold, VERY bold, but it worked.

She simply kissed him! Never said a word.

And they've been together for nearly a year.

Drop hints... Smile when you see him... try to indulge him in conversations... even better .. ask him for help in some assignment/college work etc, Appreciate him...

All these things are suficient to make him notice you, provided he also like you a bit... Dont get jealous... give him space..

Ask for his cell # if he has one, and text him if you have a phone and tell him you like him. If he says he does, then you're in. He will probably ask you out. Since you get tongue-tied, that's the easiest way. Or you could do aim or email

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

Write your phone number on one of your bras and wear it to school. Then walk up to him and pull open your shirt.

Then take off the bra and hand it to him.

This should do the trick. If not then he is gay.

well, i would suggest telling him how you feel because its straight out and not vague... as long as you dont make it that way. you could probably turn up the flirting without being a skank or anything.

write him a letter, or something.

but you should just tell him how you feel.

you are obviously liking this guy...short of going obsessive on his ass..you HAVE TO say it. period. you have to tell him you want him...guys are clueless..they dont' know...let him know..if it works then cool..if it doesnt..move to the next one.

hun just say it or ask him to do with you road trip or something give time to tell you what he feel.