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ok. well me and my gf just broke up yesterday. after being together for 11 months. i realy loved her. and i still do. the reason why we broke up is because she went out to a dance and she met a guy. she told me she really liked him and that she was starting to feel something for him. i decided that the best would be to brake up. she also did. she said she woulden't be comtable with me if we continue. i agree. yesterday i saw her for the last time. and i wished her good lucked in life and everything. i gave her one last kiss and said good bye. then she grabbed me and wouldent let me go. a couple seconds later she started crying all crazy. saying she really loved me. i didn't live right away and i stayed with her. we talked and we were 100 percent we couldent go back out. later at night she called me, and said that she was willing to go back out if i wanted to. so in a way i said yes. we saw each other in the morning today, and she said that defenetly it was over. my question is, what should i do??? should i just leave her, or what???

Hailster · Accepted Answer

she is probably really confused with herself and is not sure what to do. you should just give her some time and make sure she has a level head before she decides anything. don't try to beg for her back, just talk casually and move back up from there.

Lake · Answer

lol it sounds like she's being a bit schizophrenic i would say that she is just a person who doesn't know what they want; part of her wants to stay with you while the other part of her wants to be with the other guy; ultimately the ball lays in your court, you could choose to stay with her and deal with her everyday mindset change, or you could leave her long enough for her to figure out what it is she really wants. :) hope i helped!

ARI · Answer

You two really need to talk about your feelings for one another and find out if you guys are willing to try to work things out in your relationship.

Rosie &lt;3 · Answer

Definately talk to her first. It sounds like she is serious about you and her but also totally not. If she was willing to break up with you for another guy... after one night... it doesnt sound like she is truly worth your love?

kelsy · Answer

Wow. that is one complicated girl you got there. If you really care about her and you know she does too then stay with her, but if she is having doubts it is best just to go. Girls are complex and she probably wants to hold on, but she really needs to let go. :)

bob · Answer

I've had this happen to me, Leave now! You'll be saner for it in the long run. Move on and stay busy!

xoxoxo · Answer

omg, shes being a baby. leave her. she just has problems or sumtihn. if u stay with her shes just gunna annoy the crap out of u by havin her ups and downs

Crystle · Answer

try to move on
its only best

ik it will take time
focus on school,or with
and friends,forgvet about girls untill your fuly over her

peggy sue · Answer

ever heard that saying let it go and if it comes back its yours for good?

Anonymous · Answer

tell her to call when she finally makes up her mind.

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