How to deal with the ex wife?

Believe it or not...The "Ex" factor is weird like that. When they realized that they no longer have the person or the relationship anymore, they tend to go crazy. Especially when there are kids involved -- because they feel like they have so much more control and power though the kids.

In this case, not only she knows that she will no longer have the man "for good", because he's going to marry you. She also feels threaten having you in the kids life as well.

Trust me...I was in the very same situation so I totally understand what you are going through and how you feel.

The best advise that I can give you is that do not let ruin or change your relationship. Second, when it's involved with the kids...regardless whether you like it or not....try to keep in mind that she is the mother and she is the one that is responsible for them.

Unless that ever decision your husband & she makes toward the kids matter you or involve you..then don't get involved. Just focus on your relationship with your husband and everything will work out.

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Well honey, if you think anything will change, i am sorry to tell you this, but it is not going to. I know because i deal with an ex-wife who is a complete wacko, she must be bipolar or something. If you plan on having a baby with your husband, it will only get worse. What i have done now is just completely ignore all her crap. We haave a new baby together, she called the cops on my husband because it was her time with her daughter when our son was born, and their daughter wanted to be with me and the baby, but it went right up her you know what, and she called the cops on my husband at the hospital. She has caled child services on us claiming child neglect, of course the cops laughed and left. I have 2 teenager kids from a previous marriage my self. It sucvk and unfortunately we really can't change what ithers do, but do tell your husband to put restrictions on her, she will do everything and try anything to breal you apart or make your lives miserable. Do not try to include her in anything anymore, do not become a pushover with her.I had tried with my husband ex many times, and i must have given her 8 to 10 chances , and i thought maybe she would realize and open her damn eyes, that she can not tear me and my husband apart. I will tell you though because my husband is a very caring and good hearted man, he has allowed her to walk all over him, not anymore. Do not go out of your way for her. If she wants to make things better she should be willing and let her come forwdr with an olive branch. What i don't get is if you are so loving and caring with their kids they should be happy and that is all they should care about, but they don't . They are so friggin vicious. I would never do that to my ex-husband. Good luck, you will need it. Don't be too nice, you will get stomped on.

I know exactly what you mean. I've been living this for 13 years now. I finally got to the point that I don't even acknowledge she is around. At a school function or whatever, if she is there, I won't even look her way. My husband treats her the same way. The kids are grown now, so it's much easier because their is no need to have any communication with her whatsoever.

Hang in there and don't let her get the best of you. She is probably immature and lacking in education. Good luck.

My first theory after examining your submit grew to become into: pay somebody to scare her so she strikes away... Lol hoever that does no longer be very constructive! She does sound like she is somewhat psycho... yet i think of you may no longer be threatened via her. Your bf loves you so I doubt shell be waiting to get returned into his existence in any incorrect way than his dating along with his son. My propose could be... Step up an font enable her comprehend which you're feeling threatened reason then shell sense like she is on top of issues, shell sense greater waiting to break you. rather face her. And enable her see which you and your guy are satisfied jointly and that there's no longer something she would have the capacity to do approximately it! And as for making use of you as nannies, nicely that's certainly as much as you an how lots you enable her get away with. i'm constructive that as long as you 2 act as a collection, face this jointly as a collection, she will have the means to locate there's no longer something she would have the capacity to do to reallly harm your dating! sturdy success

When there's an ex-wife involved there's always going to be some kind of drama. Dont even bother trying to please her. She obviously still has feelings for your boyfriend. Who knows she might try to make a move on him, so be careful.

shes jealous. she lost her husband to someone better than she could ever be. you should be proud of that but make sure you tell your fiance that you dont recieve her attitude and if she has a problem she needs to confront you infront of him

Sounds like jealously here just keep doing what you are doing everyone will see her true colors sooner or later.

you may not be jealous but guess who is!!! she doesn't want to be replaced, she doesn't want her kids calling you mom. your taking her ex who wasn't supposed to move on, let her deal with it.