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Would you still love her if...?
You've been with her for 2 years and she hasn't lost or gained weight through the 2 years. But she's going through a hard time in her life and she's eating her emotions. You don't notice that she's gaining weight at first because it's happening gradually but eventually you start realizing when you make love to her that there's blubber in places where there didn't used to be. And it's spreading and getting bigger.
Now she's 200 pounds, but she's still the same person you knew before (except maybe with more self-esteem problems).
Do you still feel attracted to her?
Do you still want to be with her?
Do you still love her the same way?
1 Answer
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
There seems to be more than just a simple self-esteem problem. This sounds like a possible eating disorder and the beginning of depression. If I know she's being medicated by a prescription that causes weight gain, a lot of this would be excusable. Two years is a long time and it's hard for a relationship to end suddenly even if she gains a whole bunch of weight.
If she gains a lot of weight, it's hard to be as attracted to her.
I may want to be with her but if I feel helpless in trying to alleviate her sorrows or depression, I might feel compelled to leave her temporarily so she can work out her problems on her own.
Like I said, love doesn't fade that easily. Most of the time, the love will stay. Whether it may be the same way is up for debate. But lovers could change to friends eventually...
