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Why does she do this to me? Does she like me or not?

Hello my name is Salomon. Okay heres the deal. Just about a year ago i went out with this girl that i barely knew. We went out for 5 days and then she left me for another guy. The girls Name is Noemi and the guy she left me for is Daniel. Well after we broke up we completely stop talking to me. There werent any hard feelings at all but i was a little upset considering i really liked her. I remember that there were times when i would go to a dance and she would come up to me and ask me to dance but i would alwayz say no bcuz reasons i cant think of.

Well anywayz a whole year went by and we didnt speak to eachother hear from eachother or see eachother at all.

During that year i went out with a girl name Adriana.

We went out for six months and just broke up recently.

About 3 weeks ago Noemi sent me a message out of no where saying how are u and heres my number if u wanna call.

So i called her and things were great we were better friends than a year ago. She said she still had a boyfriend but i didnt ask her. She asked if she could come over the next day and she did.

We hung out wit some friends and everything waz cool. She waz going to leave and she hugged me. She said bye and walked alittle. The she stopped turned around and came back to hug me this time even tighter as if she didnt want to leave. She is shorter than me by a few inches and she had her head on my chest. She was looking down so i thought she was crying. I looked down to see her and she starting to kiss me. Okay let me say something. You know how on TV they say that some one felt something when they had that first kiss and they never felt that before in anyones kiss. Well i thought that was made up until that night when she kissed me.

About 2 days ago i was talking to her on myspace and i waz tired of holding everything in and i sent this big long Message.

HERE IT IS

HEY IM SORRY PLZ DONT HATE ME

PLZ THATZ THE LAST THING I WANT

I WANT U

PLZ DONT BE MAD AT ME

PLZ DONT LET IT BE A WHOLE YEAR UNTIL WE TALK AGAIN

I JUST CANT DO THAT

HEY I BEEN THINKING A LOT AND I NEED U TO KNOW SOMETHING

I KNOW THIS IS LIKE 2 SOON TO TELL U

BUT OKAY WHEN WE WENT OUT AND I TOLD U I LOVED U

WELL I REALLY MEANT IT

WHEN U BROKE UP WIT ME I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING I DIDNT GET MAD OR ANYTHING BCUZ ALL I WANTED WAZ 4 U TO BE HAPPY

WELL TIME WENT ON AND I WOULD SEE U WIT UR BF AND I THOUGHT TO MYSELF I COULD MOVE ON TO

SO THEN I WENT OUT WITH ADRIANA

I FELL IN LOVE WIT HER SO BADLY

WELL ATLEAST I THOUGHT I DID

BUT TO TELL U THE TRUTH THE YEAR THAT I DIDNT TALK TO U AT ALL I LOOKED 4 SOMETHING TO REPLACE U

AND I THOUGHT I DID

I THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE WITH ADRIANA

BUT NOW THAT I THINK ABOUT IT

IT WUZ REALY U THAT I WAZ IN LOVE WITH

THAT NIGHT WHEN WE KISSED

I FELT THE SAME EXACT HAPPY IN LOVE FEELING THAT I FELT WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER

NOEMI IT TOOK ME A WHOLE YEAR TO REALIZE HOW CRAZY I AM ABOUT U

BUT ITZ TOO LATE

U GOT A BF AND U LOVE HIM AND IM PROUD OF U

AS LONG AS UR HAPPY IM HAPPY

ANY WAYZ YEA ME TELLING U THE WHOLE I LOVE U THING IS PROBABLY LIKE FREAKIN U OUT BUT ITZ TRUE

AND I WILL LOVE TO B WIT U

I WILL TREAT U LIKE THE WAY UR SUPPOSED TO BE

AND I WILL GIVE MY HEART TO U

I LOVE U WITH NO LOVE LEFT OVER FOR ANYONE ELSE AND I NEED TO BE WIT U I NEED U UR THE ONLY ONE THAT MAKES ME SMILE AND MAKES ME LAUGH AND I TALK ABOUT U SO MUCH I NEVER DO THAT WITH ANYONE

NOEMI U R BEAUTIFUL

I COULD JUST WATCH U AND NEVER GET BORED

I CANT GET U OUT OF MY MIND NO MATTER HOW HARD TRY AND NOW ITZ STARTING TO BUG ME

SO I NEEDED TO TELL U HOW I FELT AND ITZ THE TRUTH

I DONT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN

JUST CUZ I TOLD U THESE THINGS IT DOESENT MEAN THAT I WANT U TO SAY SOMETHING LIKE IT BACK

WELL YEA.......

NOW U KNOW

AFTER A WHOLE YEAR

=[.....

after that msg i asked her out.

she didnt reply until the next day.

She said that the message i sent made her cry.

Then she said do you want to know my answer and about wat i asked her and she said I regret breaking up wit you but i cant do that to my boyfriend.

Everyone i asked about this says that she likes me but idk for sure could anyone please give me there opinion.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    straight up most girls are bitches

    i agree that you so should not have sent her that message because i think its more than she deserves

    (although i thought that the reading the twilight series was a stroke of genius, the twilight series is fiction)

    she likes you but its more like she likes you and she knows she can get you

    that she cheated on her bf but she can't break up with him?

    the message probably made her cry because she realizes how good you are

    theres this book by tucker max called "i hope they serve beer in hell" and he comments on one of his stories by saying that people unnecessarily spend money on self help books because in the end "people treat you the way you let them"

    do not let her walk all over you. let her come to you. do NOT go after her there are better girls.

  • 1 decade ago

    You might hate me for this but careful man. I know some people say everyone deserves a second chance well 65% of people who do get a second chance usually screw up the second time. But then again you never know, just go with your instinct and try not to let it get to you too much if it doesn't work out. So good luck (:

  • 1 decade ago

    do not wait for her..move on..if you are willing to get into another relationship with someone else do it.if she makes up her mind handle a decent breakup with her boyfriend,,she'll do it and come back to u.just tell her to do so in decent way and let her know if it happens then u can be with her coz shes not happy with him then whats the use?she must have d guts to confront him....but u be cool and calm do not completely keep waiting for her next move or answer.just tell her what u want and leave it..u can talk to her in normal way not too close try keep maintaining distance(physically) else she will end up cheating on him and not being with you (officially dating) either.so u will be nowhere then

  • 1 decade ago

    1. you shouldnt have sent that message, it makes you sound like a 13itch.

    2.hopefully she was telling the truth when she responded

    3. you are fu<k3d, you need to leave it alone and move one

    4. she will find her way back just be patient

    5 speed up the process by being a close friend

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  • 1 decade ago

    us girls r a lil tricky...... i think she likes u but mayb she likes her bf too.i wouldnt pressure her bcuz its hard to decide between 2 guys she probably wants too be with u but part of her wants to be with her new bf.... read the twilight series and in new moon the 2nd it will tell u everything!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    ummmmm i dont get the caps but she sounds a little uhh skanky NOT saying she is but kissing you and then saying she cant leave her boyfriend can i have some more details or something it wasint on the cheek or something right?

  • 1 decade ago

    i think she does like you, but maybe she doesn't know what she wants, so maybe she's just keeping things the way they are so she can think about it. just wait a while, she might come around, just don't wait too long.

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