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not tryin to play dirty but how do i get a girl who likes sumone else 2 like me instead?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    wait it out. if they talk to you about relationship problems listen but speak out against the other person, like "they don't deserve you", other such BS.

    if she doesn't know you exist your out of luck

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Hmmm. exciting the lady asked fairly out, you like outgoing, greater passionate aggressive ones, nicely it must be that your flirting type suits along with her character and thats what she likes approximately you. females can like greater effective than one guy, yet i think they could purely love one, Im guessing via your communicate you nonetheless in some type of coaching facility. i could say at this age, love won't be got here upon. Im no longer attempting discourage you from flirting with this or different woman because of the fact lots of the time you may fail in the past you be triumphant. opportunities are high with this woman that she particularly likes the different guy yet likes some issues in you besides, as possibly your flirting type, do no longer be shocked to work out if she would not have interest in you...and likewise approximately your flirt type, do you flirt with greater females in her? if so evaluate that she is insecure approximately this and could fairly have a guy that would not, or atleast she thinks he would not sturdy success you will desire it

  • 1 decade ago

    DON'T SPREAD A RUMOR ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON. The girl would eventually find out, and that would make you look like a jerk. Just wait it out, and be nice to her as much as you can without making it ot obvious. It isn't worth loosing her as a friend if you can't be more.

  • zombie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Be outgoing and be yourself. Try to become aquatinces with her and then ask her out on a date, like movies, dinner, ice cream, something fun for the both of you. Ask her to describe herself and talk about life.

    You'll have a high chance.

    If she turns you down, she's not worth it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well this same situation happened to me this year to be honest with you

    i am in high school and this girl was dating some dude who i didnt really like but she did, so i started hitting on her, and flirting with her a lot, u know i talked to her and made her feel good about herself. in the end she ended up liking me, dumped the guy she was with and then dated me

    so just try hitting on them, flirting, making physical contact with them but if you are hitting on them and they walk away dont follow them because that is a sign they dont want you

    Source(s): personal experience :)
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get close to her

    become nice frnds with her

    get her to like u, first as a frnd

    get her to trust u

    make her like u better than the other guy

    never try to make her to dislike the other guy

    that mite jus make her dislike u...instead

    so....aftr u get to knw her better

    spend more tym wid her

    tell her ur feelings

    if she says no

    try to make her jealous? by talkn more to her best frnd or smpn

    and yea like u said - don try to play dirty....be smooth and be urslf...

    good luck ;)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i hate to say this but its the truth. if she don't like you, then you cant force her to. i had the same deal with this guy in the 4th grade. i liked him bt he likede this other girl so i just moved on! there are other fish in the sea, so get your fishing pole and hook one of them! there's someone out there that may like you! be yourself thas what helped me withthis guy i like. i was being myself, then this guy started liking me. its that easy. don't try too hard b/c us girls know when a guy's tryin to hard to immpress someone.

    Source(s): the truth hurts
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be as nice as possible, and if you really like her, then you will wait for her to go through her phase of liking this other guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    be awesome... its that simple. being attractive is basically just being the best person you can be. there are a lot of other factors and details, but it this is what is comes down to.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to her more, embarras the guy she likes. hang out with her. but whatever you do dont act like him, just be yourself, and be confident, she'll fall head over heals for you before you know it! good luck! ☻

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