Why do guys pick fights over stupid stuff and keep you at arms length and claim to be in love with you? True?

They don't. Guys never pick fights with me or keep me at arms length must just be you.

Hey there, I dont really believe you truley WANT to die. Do you know that life on earth really isnt the end when you die!? it doesnt end there.... there IS indeed a heaven and a hell so the gap you have left out is knowing for certain where your going.. if you had God though I believe He would give you a hand and a peace that would pass all understanding and you wouldnt really be wanting to kill urself.. its just kind of crazy. its kind of selfish to all your friends and family... u may think ur just ending ur life.. but how will it make people feel? look at everything u have to look foreward to! 19 is young! and it would be silly to end ur life over something silly like this. I am sorry if u cant have yourcousin in the way that u would like.. but THERE ARE indeed other girls! I was in love once before I got married and thought that it was the end of the world whe the guy and I broke up... but life moved on..just keep ur head up buddy... u can do this.. add me if u need someone to talk to

Well, I know for a fact that most of the fights between my bf and I tend to be over things that other women have hurt him with. He has been hurt a lot and tends to unknowingly punish me for the things they used to do to him. He really does love me, but he is terrified of being hurt again so he has not let me all the way in. But I love him and I am patient so we are slowly working it out. Maybe you two just need more communication. Bring it up to him but don't be confrontational about it. Don't throw it in his face, maybe just explain that you are a little confused and want some reassurance. I am sure he would understand. Plus, anytime you are speaking to your ex and dating someone, it can be awkward and cause stress to the current relationship even if nothing is going on.

If you love him great, what more can you do. Can you trust him? If you can then there's no problem. I'm friends with most of my exes but it doesn't mean I want to be with them again. It took me 25 years to get to the point where I didn't hate my ex wife but she got mental medical health help and it fixed her. She wouldn't do it when we were married. I'm one for giving my ex a chance and most of mine have grown up (for lack of a better word). Talk to him. Communication is the key in every good relationship and it needs to become your saving grace. You both need to talk things over. Let him bury his past the best he can. She's already married, that's one out of the way. Reassure him he's not the one who needs to feel guilty especially since she's the one who got married. She's a needy person and her talking to him is proof. Her husband can't fulfill her needs so she calls him. He has you now and that's all that should be in his mind. He divorced her physically and he needs you to help him divorce her mentally. Show him he's better off now. You've got him now so you're pretty well needless. Concentrate on getting him over her all the way. If need be ASK him to get rid of her numbers and let her go. There should be nothing in either of your minds but each other. Strive for this and talk it out together.

Hope this helps, the best of luck to you.

i think that he is innocent in the situation and she wants him back. Their relationship would not be a threat if she didn't want him and making him feel guilty, but since she is the realationship is a threat. U should just sit down with him and talk about it and how u feel.

i have something similar going on in my life. You might say im fast, forward or whatever but i know what and how to handle it. I am a middle school student and in a "relationship" his ex is my BESTFRIEND". She keeps telling me that he is playing me and all this and that. I know that it is just an excuse for me to break up with him. But i think he is telling me something but i cant understand it. when she walks into the room he stops right in the middle of a sentence to talk to her and then ignores me. I think its whats in your heart and you shoud make a decision based on that.

You are mixing with the wrong crowd.

give him something with licorice root in it. He will become closer than ever

Rofl...So one guy did that to you, and so that's what every guy in the human race does....Ridiculous!

sorry,that'snever

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