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My boyfriend and me got in a fight?
and he ended up hurting me physically. Now he says that he cant control himself when he gets angry and he feels like all i want to do is hurt him. he just got on medication but it takes 3 weeks to work. it seems that afterwards he is sorry and he apologizes and tells me he knows he was wrong...the next day it seems like it's back to normal. I dont know exactly what im asking but i need advice or something and we also have a baby together. he raised a knife to me too but only to get me to leave the house. is it wrong for me to forgive him and want to give him another chance and for me to love him and hug him again??
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
unfortunately, this is typical abusive behavior. he hurts you, then begs you to stya because he loves you. and while you might love him, you have a child to think about. what if he hurts the baby next?
my best advice-get out. maybe not permanantly, but at least for now, until you see his medication is truly working. go spend the holidays with people who care about you, and make sure you let someone know whats going on.
if you keeping letting this continue, it will not end well for you or your baby.
good luck
- 1 decade ago
a man should never put his hands on a lady also threaten her with a knife. its not healthy for you or your child, the best thing to do is leave because it can do a lot of damage mentally and physically to you and your child if you stay. my mom was in a abusive relationship and she's still trying to heal to this day. but if that was me i wouldn't 4give him at all because if he really loves you he wouldn't try to hurt you
Source(s): life - Anonymous1 decade ago
Uh-huh. That's always how it is with people who abuse you.
They abuse you, and then they're instantly hugely apologetic, saying they're so sorry and they love you so much.
Bullshit.
No medication is going to make him stop abusing you. No amount of forgiveness will make him stop abusing you. No amount of guilt will make him stop abusing you.
The only thing that will make him stop abusing you, is you walking out the front door, and not coming back.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Honey, this will not end well! He is being abusive. If you keep on forgiving him, he will hurt you more next time and the periods in between will grow shorter. Please leave him and make sure he doesn't know where you are!
