i need help asap from anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

if she is on the court order than no. let her punch u than get the cops over there. wouldn't be hard to prove violence then.

Get some form of proof that she is saying this so you have more that he said she said going on. Because, you know she will deny the allegation that she made such a threat. You may have trouble getting a hold of your lawyer today so you may call the local authorities and see what they say. Also, is it written in the court order that the grandparents must come as well-b/c if it isn't point blankly stated in the document she can't come in the home. Get a hidden video just in case..

GOOD LUCK

Call the police and tell them that you have been court ordered to allow visitation however you have been threatened. If they cant do anything about it then I'd have someone there with a camera and I'd video tape the whole visit in case something goes down, if she hits you.. YOU WIN the custody battle!

AND JUST FYI, if you do the whole hidden video route, when she enters your home BY LAW you MUST tell her that she is being video taped.. Video taping someone without their knowledge is against the law in EVERY state in the US

Yes you should refuse this to happen. You need to get in contact with your lawyer and tell him/her what is going on. Maybe the best thing to do is to get a restraining order on her so that she can not come over but the father of your child can. Hope all works out for you.

First of all, you don't have to let his mother into your home if you do not want too, especially if you feel your safety is going to be compromised. You are in a custody dispute with the father, not the fathers mom. Don't let them fool you into believing that you have to bow down to them out of fear that you will lose your child. Yes, you can refuse to let her come to your home, and for some bizarre reason if you feel you still have to let her come, make sure you have friends or relatives of yours their with you. Don't leave yourself alone with this individual.

The only thing i can think of is if you get an attorney to get a restraining order from a judge today.

call her today and say that if she and her family dares touch you or your son, then you will call the police for protection. she will back away a bit but if you get a hint that she ignores every single protection threat, call the police immediately. good luck, i don't know you but i cant stand for people to get hurt!

u get ready with cctv cameras

as she hits u

show it to the judge and lawyers and get case on ur side

i think that may bring u the advantage

call your local law enforcement and tell them what going on they will prob have an officer there for the visit

Phone the police and ask for their advice.