my husband hates having sex with me?

Look, I don't know everything but it sounds like he is addicted to porn. It kills a mans sex with his wife. Even awesome beautiful women. It's not your fault, but he may try to blame you. Porn kills a mans sex life with his own wife.

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my husband hates having sex with me?

I am a 29 yr old woman and my husband is 28. We have been together for 4 yrs but married for 2 yrs. I have a child from previous marriage and we have a baby together who is under 1 yr. We have a fantastic life, he is a great provider and father. Only 1 problem. He always puts off having sex...

I agree that it prob has a lot to do with his porn addiction. He sounds satisfied smackling to the porn sites. Maybe you are a little too flexible in giving into anything and everything and come off sounding needy...not that that isn't justified but try backing off of him for a while... show zero interest in him...play hard to get and he may pull his head out of his A$$ and realize sex with a real women is better. Here is another suggestion instead of waiting until nightime when everyone is asleep why don't you try it early in the morning when everyone is asleep. A mans sex drive is usually the greatest in the morning.

It is the PORN! It is not your fault beleive me I know my old man used to call sex chat and look at porn all the time and i did not even know.You need to tell him to stop porn NOW! You know he is whacking off without you and your just not as good as his fantasy and his hand.He is lazy and he is hurting you.Demand it stop or else leave him.He is being a selfish porn addicted prick.Its not you honey I promise.No one can compare to their fantasy and your killing yourself trying.Looking back had I known then in 1997 what I know now.I would just have left my husband and been done.They are selfish. They put you through hell.Am I too fat ? Is it my breasts ,Maybe I look too old.PORN exsploits women okay.I know you are open minded >I used to be too till I read the life story of Sharon Marshall a little 5 year old girl who was kidnapped by a pedaphile raised by him , forced to do porn,forced to get breast implants ,Forced too work in strip clubs from 17 to 24 and finally murdered I will never be opened minded about porn again.You know why they smile and act like they like it? Because if they do not make enough money they will get the crap beat out of them by their owner/pimp/father/boyfreind.This is reality and only one person at a time can become informed and choose to turn the crap off it might help at least knowing that your not contributing to the exsploitation of these women.They are somebodys daughters/sisters.

Sex anorexics like porn but shy away from their spouses for various reasons. Try counseling. Admittedly this is just something I heard about on Strange Sex but I have been looking into it because...well my husband isn't into porn but isn't into sex with me either. It's always great when it finally happens but that's rarer and rarer...granted I am 8 months pregnant and probably look like a beached whale to him, but I was never thin, and we had great sex in the beginning.

He needs to see his doctor to make sure there isn't a physical problem. Doc may need to prescribe Viagra or something. But if your husband's problem is psychological, like being addicted to porn, that could present a problem (and you should let his doctor know about that). If there's nothing physically wrong, and if your husband wants to stay married, you might need to consult a marriage counselor. Your husband may have dome other deep problems that he's not completely aware of. 28 is too early to lose interest in sex and there has to be some other thing going on.

I agree with the consensus that he has a problem with porn. Porn creates this fantasy world with women who are photoshopped or are otherwise ridiculously perfect looking and acting. You may look amazing, but you can't compete with his fantasy. If he's spending a lot of time looking at porn and masturbating, he's not leaving anything for you. It's very selfish and you should put your foot down and put an end to it now. While you're at it, put your foot down and tell him you guys are having sex. Too bad.

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Were you ever sexually abused as a child? If so and you never got therapy to come to terms with the abuse you could be suffering from post traumatic stress. This is a common symptom of untreated sexual trauma and can arise at any time but most commonly after a woman has children of her own. You owe it to yourself and your poor husband to get some therapy and get to the source of your distress. Even if you don't recall any abuse your subconscious could have buried it.

If he says that he would do anything to keep this marriage going then tell him that you will leave him and tell him the reasons! Hard to believe that you could still love someone who does not satisfy you. It is hard to break up but it sounds like you have to do it. You deserve a normal life!