I like this girl we go to church together and I really like her(HELP)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Hmmm, well, 17 does still seem a little bit old, but you guys seem like sweet kids, I trust you, go for it.

Stick to your word though, NOTHING SEXUAL.

She's too young for you and I doubt her parents would allow it. The problem is when you are 18 she will only be 14. And when you are 19 she will be 15 -- see the huge age difference? And when you start getting into a romantic relationship with anyone, you do start desiring more intimacy, and that would just be really inappropriate. But hey, ask her parents what they think about you asking their daughter out. See what they say. I personally think you need to date women your own age.

kudos! it's encouraging meeting ppl on here who make it known their christians and dont want sex til marriage :) i'm in the same situation only i'm 17 and he's almost 21, basically just take it rly slow and always know her parents thoughts on the whole thing. maybe ask her dad if you can date her. shes a lil young but if shes mature then i'd say go ahead and see what happens

best of luck!

you seem like a good guy, but to me 17 seeMS REALLY old for a 13 yr old! my parents would NEVER have let me go with a 17 yr old.

good luck. I don't know, I'm not trying to put you down, but I don't know if a 13 yr old girl should be thinking of liking a guy or dating, ya know?

you have to do what's right for HER. I've liked younger guys, before, too, but I didn't act on it. you have to make sure you're her friend FIRST before telling her how you feel, etc.

JMO.

Be really nice to her and always talk to her and if you think she really likes you, then ask her out. After that, just go out to the movies or go out to dinner but don't get too close yet. After you feel like you know everything about each other and you never want to break up, then you can get closer to her but remember that she's only 13 so don't get too serious.

Wow i'm in the same situation except I'm the 13 year old girl...except im 15.

I'd suggest talking to her ALOT. Make the first kiss special (tell her how you feel about it right before.) of course just make her feel great about herself and I'm sure you guys will be great. good luck!

Just ask her out. It sounds like she is going to say yes. Just make sure her parents are okay with it. No matter what, don't force her into anything. Good Luck!

-Hope this helps!

That sounds great, except for the age difference. Right now, it is just plain creepy, sorry that sounds so mean, but its true. When you guys get older though, it won't be a problem. My parents are six years apart, and it's not creepy. But right now, its cradle robbing. Please wait a while.

wow ok, well i think if you like this girl you should definatly go for it. since you havn't had a girl friend i'm assuming you don't have much experience with dating and hanging out with girls but that's ok. all you really need to do is talk to her, get her number and text her, and ask her to hang out. things should work out great if you play it cool and follow your instincts

Ask her out on a date and then if you had a good time make a move and ask her out.