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Me and my boyfriend exchanged phones and....?
I found text messages from girls saying things to the affect of "Yea i remember you how are you doing?" "You look cute as always, how is everything going?" mind you he can only keep about 40 text in his inbox so he is constantly deleting texts everyday- yet those text messages are from a couple of months ago. One of the girls he said that he did have sex with a couple of times in the past.
He went through my phone and found texted messages that i sent a guy i was exclusively having sex with before i met my current boyfriend. Even though they weren’t in the present he still freaked out about them because they had some graphic sexual content.
We thoroughly talked about my phone because he was thoroughly freaked out, which i can understand even though all of the texted were sent and received before i even met him, but we didn't really discuss his. Should i be worried about his? Should i leave it alone? Or should i talk to him about it? Please keep in mind that me and him thoroughly discussed opposite sex friends and it is not ok for either of us to speak to old sexual partners and he told me that he doesn't have any friends of the opposite sex- neither of us do. He has made it clear to me that he doesn’t feel comfortable with me making new guy friends or reaching out to old ones as I have too. What should I do?
Neither of us agree with having opposite sex friends. He doesn't seem like the cheater type but he has cheated on every girl he;s been with. I don't think he's cheating but i think something is definatly fishy.
he told me that he freaked out about an ex-girlfriend's past sexual expierences and he was cheating on her at the time... yeah i don't know about this.
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Woah, switch back phones first of all to solve a few things.
You guys need to sit down together alone in a room and talk about every single thing that seems suspicious to both of you. If it helps, make a list. When it's his time to talk, you should listen and consider what he is saying. When your talking, he should listen. If any shouting starts, both of you should remember that shouting your feelings gets you nowhere! Don't look away when your talking; be focused on what he has to say and vice versa.
Then when everythings resolved you'll feel a lot better.
- 1 decade ago
[get her number] Ask your dude, if he isn't honest, then there's a trust issue, in other words...REFRESH HIS MEMORY then call/text the girl and arrange for a get together[ pretend your your dude] ask about meeting up, then make a suprise vist-just dont let her know who you are untill you both are comfortable, then- drop the bomb. Let her know if she wants him, she's welcome to it. {if he did it to you-he'll do it to her}
