Jade

I found text messages from girls saying things to the affect of "Yea i remember you how are you doing?" "You look cute as always, how is everything going?" mind you he can only keep about 40 text in his inbox so he is constantly deleting texts everyday- yet those text messages are from a couple of months ago. One of the girls he said that he did have sex with a couple of times in the past.

He went through my phone and found texted messages that i sent a guy i was exclusively having sex with before i met my current boyfriend. Even though they weren’t in the present he still freaked out about them because they had some graphic sexual content.

We thoroughly talked about my phone because he was thoroughly freaked out, which i can understand even though all of the texted were sent and received before i even met him, but we didn't really discuss his. Should i be worried about his? Should i leave it alone? Or should i talk to him about it? Please keep in mind that me and him thoroughly discussed opposite sex friends and it is not ok for either of us to speak to old sexual partners and he told me that he doesn't have any friends of the opposite sex- neither of us do. He has made it clear to me that he doesn’t feel comfortable with me making new guy friends or reaching out to old ones as I have too. What should I do?

I told my boyfriend that i went out last night just so that he'd wonder for a little bit. I called him at 1:30am and he answered the phone (he normally goes to sleep at like 10 and sleeps like a rock). He's slightly possessive and i've noticed that he's been getting a little comfortable. Am i wrong for this?

I'm with someone that I am defiantly in Love with and i can feel myself about to swoon all over him. Will this annoy him or should i keep him on his toes? Please advise.

This weekend I went out with my boyfriend to a picnic because he wanted to introduce me to some of his friends. Once we get there we shake hands and swap names. Him and his best friend start talking about something so I started to mingle. Less then 10 feet away, one of his friends that he just introduced me to was standing taking in the sites. I walked up to him, nudged him with my shoulder, he then proceeded to give me a side hug and then we started having small talk (I asked him how his day was, what he did for a living ect…...)

Later my boyfriend comes up to me and started to say that I was being too friendly with his friend in that instance. He said that I didn’t know his friend long enough to interact with him in that manner and that I was giving off the impression that I “wanted” his friend. He said that he understood that my intentions were innocent but it just didn’t look good.

Was I being too friendly or is he insecure?

I've been dating this guy that is 14 years older then me and we get along with each other perfectly.

I was talking to him last night about possible problems that we may have and the age things came up of course. He mentioned that he was scared of what my family may think (which is irrelevant because i don't really have much family and the family that i do have know me meaning they can either support who i am or go fly a kite)- he then proceeded to talk about his family- i got a knot in my stomach and couldn’t help but think that they’d hate me because I’m so much younger then him. One of his daughters is 7 years younger then me…..

The long and short- everything between us works perfectly but he’s 14 years older then me

Can this relationship work or am I wasting my time?