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What would you do........?
What would you do if your fiance who lives with his parents,( and I live with mine). Doesn't want to see you or spend time with you on New Years Eve?
Just because of something I lied to him about the past and he doesn't trust me or can stand to look at me. I understand that what I did broke his heart , however when I did cheat on him it was before I knew he really loved me and wanted to be with me. Plus I will never be a cheater anymore, That was 3 years ago , and I see how wrong it is.
I told him part of the truth but no the full truth until the week I moved out, Since i knew if I told him from the very start, he would never want to be with me. I know that was wrong and not a great thing to do to his feelings. I have been moved out of "our" apartment for 4 weeks and he reacntly moved out of "our" apartment 2 weeks ago. I know I screwed him over and I have told him how much I love him and still care for him. I want to give him the time to forgive me and want to spend time with me.
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
you have to realize.... that after you sucker punch someone......
it takes time for them to get their air back... so that they can breath normal.
It will take time for him to trust you again..... and even if this happened some time ago... he has to deal with your CHEATING... now.
so if you have to spend New years eve and day by yourself.... it is only your fault.
- Candice BLv 61 decade ago
Your past is what makes you who you are today. I'm sure in hind sight you realize that you should of been up front to begin with. But if he isn't going to forgive you for having sex with another man, before the two of you were serious, he's going to hold this over your head the rest of your life if you end up marrying him. Just think about what would happen if you DID make that mistake while married to him. You need a man who will love and cherish you for who you are, and is able to forgive the little things.
Source(s): I have a very good man! - Double MMLv 51 decade ago
You cheated on him, and you have a problem with him not understanding? If you recently told him about this, I can understand his still being upset. If you told him 3 years ago, and he is still upset, then there is a huge problem.
I would kick you to the curb if you told me that, no matter when it happened. Your excuse of "I didn't know if I loved him" is lame.
It sounds like both of you are very immature.
- tfblechrisLv 51 decade ago
Sounds like it's time to move on and find someone new. Next time don't hurt the one you love. You will never be able to gain his trust again, that is why I say it is time to move on.
- AimeeLv 51 decade ago
leave him alone. If he comes back then you can show him that you will never cheat again. If he does not, then just make sure you never cheat on anyone ever again.
leave this guy alone. you cheated and lied. he deserves time to deal with it in his own way. let him make his own decision without any input from you.
- 1 decade ago
You're *fiance* won't spend time with you after 3 years? Move on.. that's kinda wierd.. And don't cheat on the next one... geez.
- AimesLv 41 decade ago
if it happened 3 years ago and the 2 of you can't move past - then why the heck are ya'll still together?
