How not to smack a boyfriend's friend that happens to be a girl?

you need to talk to your boyfriend and let him see what is really going on. cuz whether he realizes it or not.. he is allowing this to occur. he should be telling her to chill out and that it isn't cool. that she needs to respect him and you and that you are together and that there is a line that shouldn't be crossed.

you already had a talk with her.. now it is his turn..

Tell him you want some time with him. If you're ever on a date with him and she calls, tell him not to leave. If he blows you off, start the tears. I'm thinking some guy's weak points are a girl's tears. I would probably draw the line when he blows you off on a date that was already scheduled. If he's constantly texting her or look at his phone during dates, ask him what's wrong and try to talk to him about it. If you are really unstable with all of it, then try talking to her, but have him around so you don't do anything horrifying to her.

It would be controlling to say you don't want him to be friends with her anymore, but it wouldn't be controlling of you brought up the situation with your boyfriend and told him that her constant need for his attention bugs you a little. Chances are she bugs him just as much. Once he knows that the situation bugs you, it would be on his shoulders to talk to this other girl and let her know that he can't give her all the attention she wants.

I think you need to tell your boyfriend exactly how you feel! Let him know that the way she behaves is inappropriate and that it makes you feel like she's more like his girlfriend than you are. Try and come to a compromise with him... Like, he can hang out with her a certain amount of time but Saturday nights are for you and him to hang out alone, without her.

If he reacts negatively and doesn't understand how you feel, and doesn't even want to listen or come to some kind of mutual agreement, say sayonora and move on. If he's not going to budge on these kind of issues he's probably not going to care about anything else that bothers you.

And why is this girl your boyfriend's friend? She sounds really strange to me. Restraining order? haha jk. You're the better catch, so don't worry about that. She is obviously crushing on him. I suggest you stay away from her haha. Well I don't know what else to tell you but I'm sure if your boyfriend is smart enough he won't be friends with that clingy vine anymore :P

Talk to him about how you feel. Tell him that you aren't angry at the girl, but you are feeling a bit awkward. You can't tell him to stop hanging out with someone, just make sure that he is aware of your feelings.

Just tell him that you dont think that they should break off the friendship, but like you said, he should draw the line somewhere.

thats almost how my last boyfriends friend was... i hated her and it seems like she want your boyfriend to dump you so she can have him all to herself. but how i fixed my bf's best friend girl drama was i had a talk with her one on one and she didn't like it and i had my friends TALK to her. i hope this helps in a way.