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What would you do in this situation?

Okay...I have had a best friend for several years and have known her as a bisexual for the past two. Recently, I came out to her as a bisexual, and over time we became extremely attracted to one another.

However, a big problem has been the fact that we both have boyfriends - she seems to love hers very much, but I am always afraid to become too close to mine, because I really do love her. I can't seem to let go of the fact that she loves her boyfriend, and yet she continues to sort of encourage my feelings for her with little words and actions. Even if I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend, I would never want to force her out of her relationship just for me. Should I just let her be and move on?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I've been in that situation before. You should talk to her and ask her how she feels about you, don't make her choose between you and her boyfriend but just make sure she is into you and don't give up. What ever is ment to be will work out.! Good luck. :]

  • 1 decade ago

    You should just talk to her. ask her how she feels about you and how she would feel if you guys tried a relationship. i have never been in this situation cause im single & straight so yeah. good luck.

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