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Mav asked in Social ScienceSociology · 1 decade ago

How can i be just one of the guys?

I am a guy and am really good with girls. but i cant manage to make good guy friends. i make friends with girls very easy. i get really hot girlfriends, i make a lot of acquaintances with people in general boys and girls. but i just cant seam to figure out how to make friends with guys i meet or have known for quite some time.

Im not gay. i just want to hang out with some guys when im not with my girlfriend. i am 24.

I am looking for real advice. its easy to just go to the bar and make friends while people who are drinking. i don't have that option.

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  • Mike T
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Leave it alone, your different. If your meant to have a friend, you'll have one. You're only 24 be patient.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why don’t you have the option to drink? It’s a perfectly acceptable means of social interactivity.

    First, you don’t “need” guy friends any more than you need girl friends or vice-versa. Society mores are such that we’re instructed to feel this way, but it is just that. A more, not a need.

    Your problem is opposite that of most men. But, you just need to find a common interest with the guys you’re talking to. That could be anything. Sports. Movies. Politics.

    Once you have found that common area of interest, the conversation flows from there, regardless of the sex of the person you’re talking to.

  • 1 decade ago

    dude you really don`t need to go to bars to make friends if anything just be you .You said that you already have friends and acquaintances well it seems what your looking for is a confidant someone to make you aware of what you already know or to just kick it with. well if your a stand up guy chances are you already have that good friend. and if not i`m here. And no i`m not gay..just a guy with interesting stories

  • boogie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You aren't the type to hang out, it seems. Don't worry about it. You will have a friend when you need one. If you want to play sports, go to the gym or community center and get into a group and learn how. Otherwise, you should like yourself in your own skin.

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have the option to go to a bar and drink. Then you will never be one of the guys. That is what guys do. True, they do ALLOT of other things but at the end of the day, we end up in the bar.

  • 1 decade ago

    try going to a park, or gym and pick up a game of some B-ball, soccer or any sport where there are guys. make some conversation while playing and boom - new friends.

    Source(s): please answer my question thx
  • 1 decade ago

    What ever is your fave thing to do, see if there is a club for it. Do something sports related, guys and sports are like peanut butter and jelly.

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