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my boyfriend has 3 kids, should we have one together?

He says he wants to, without a doubt, but i cant help but feel like he would be doing it for me. This is not something I want to force him into.

Update:

i must rephrase a bit. He was married for 13 years and all three are from the same mother. They have been divorced and we have been together for 3 years...so i am confident of his character and love for all of them.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    talk to him about it.

    if he wants one, then go ahead.

    it's not up to us to decide that for you.

    as long as he is capable of providing for all children AND be a good father to all. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    you should get married first judging on his three other kids he doesn't stick around long so maybe you should think about it you don't want a child growing up without a dad around

  • 1 decade ago

    If you want a kid, wait until marriage. Don't have a kid just for the heck of it with no strings attached.

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