My girlfriend says that she feels the magic between us is lost, what can I do?

Honestly, I don't think magic comes back.. I think it's over.

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You're her security net.

Its not a nice thing. She doesn't want you but shes keeping you hanging around until something better comes along.

Its human nature.

Tell her that you don't see a future in the relationship, and that you want to date different people. If she seriously thinks "the magic is gone" she will be fine with that.

And seriously, you deserve better than her, you just need to realise that.

Despite how the media likes to portray modern men as subservient and subordinate wimps (which has wrongly reprogrammed our minds as a whole), men and women are still hardwired in the same ways that they always have been. What she's telling you (without saying it) is that she's waiting for you to do something about it. She's hoping you do something about it. Whether this unknown "something" is worth hunting for, only you can know.

Most women enjoy the company of a decisive man who can confidently take charge. Now of course, some women will dispute this, but it's programmed right into our genes. Asking her what she "expects of you" probably made you look less than confident in her eyes, which is a turnoff to women. That's probably why she's on the ropes about what to do about it.

The fun part here is that you can't ASK her what she would find to be a magical revival. Unless you figure it out on your own and spring it on her as a romantic surprise, it won't have any effect. If she tells you what would have worked, it's already too late. Trust me dude...single life is a LOT less complicated!

Do you feel like you want to try to hang onto her, or would you rather let her go since she's already got a foot out the door? If you want to hunt for that magic, then heed these words:

Girls' biggest aphrodisiac is attention. Think about whether or not you've been paying constant attention to her lately, because many girls demand it. As soon as they think you don't care enough about them to pay as much attention to them as they want, they'll start to lose interest in you. Even if it's just because you're tired from work or school.

Start thinking about her interests and the things that you enjoyed doing together when you first started going out. Perhaps she's mentioned a fantasy of doing something that she's never tried before. You will have to turn something like this into a thoughtful surprise, a romantic getaway, etc.

Basically, she's putting the entire burden on your shoulders. She's saying "Find a way to enthrall me again, or I'm walking". She's looking for a thoughtful/creative/romantic gesture from you. If it works, you'll need to keep coming up with those gestures. Good luck.

Congratulations, your girlfriend has fallen out of love with you. People change. When people change, there feelings change. There is a strong possibility she has already left the relationship and is looking for something new. Its possible for her feelings to return, but you have to get her to change her current opinion of you to a more positive one, one she desires.

Women want to feel like they're 'special' in a relationship. Find ways to make her feel 'special'. Write her a poem, a song, or a long note explaining your feelings. Maybe buy her something random, nice, or that shows you listen to her.

If she's distant and almost seems to WANT the relationship to just end without having to listen to you, chances are she has her eyes on someone else and is just pushing you away so YOU'LL break it off and she won't have to.

Which, I might add, is also a sign of immaturity.

Yes, there is a way for the "magic" to return! Basically, you want to do whatever you did in the beginning of the relationship to win her heart back over! Be spontaneous and romantic! Do cute little things for her like massaging her back or buying her a set of flowers (Or chocolates!). Do what you would think she would like you to do again!

Hope this helped!

Best of wishes :)!!

Try showing her a good time you guys have shared together before. This could stir up old memories and remind her of how much you two care for each other.

How long have you been together? Keep in mind that time makes all the difference.

I hope things work out for you.

Show her the "magic", whip it out! Thats what she wants! sorry to be blunt, but thats it!

wave the wand again!