How would you feel if your husband says this to you..?

Wow! I can't believe he didnt take you! Or at least see what was wrong.

My husband works away and he'd call anyone and everyone to come get me if I was in serious pain and needed help! Even if we were fighting!

Your husband sounds like he needs a swift kick up the toosh!

There is obviously an underlying problem to why he acted like that but jeez, thats just not cricket!

Hope you are feeling better from all the sharings here.

Never take words spoken out of anger seriously.

Your hubby may have been too provoked to think,

talk & do things sensibly.

Hopefully when you both have calmed down,

you can sit down and talk things out.

Get to know what triggers you both to anger and

how you both should cope with each other in future.:)

Being forgiving helps to restore inner peace,btw.:)

dont think he dont love you and only you knows that?

but seems he is over protective to his baby mother and has an extremely hot temper? right with the temper only you know?

the arguement must be quite hot and some contents must have hit him hard....

cool down and talk over it and seems there are somethings that have to be trashed out between you two beofre it happens again?

good luck.

OMG he sounds like my ex. I feel bad for you.. I know how you fee. my ex would not help me at all when i would have pains so bad i would be on the floor. or when i had a hysterectomy he would not help out.. when i had a major nose bleed that would not stop i told him i needed to go to the

E R he told me i was stupid. my youngest borther had to take me. I bleed for 4 hours.. you need to divorce him and find someone who loves and respects you.. my ex told me he never would ahve divorced his ex if she enver filed and she cheated on him like 6 times and had son by someone esle. I took better care if his sons he treated my son like crap.. i am not married to the most wonderful man.. kick him out

Honey, you and I both need to leave our husbands. Maybe we should get an apartment and be roommates, we can compare stories. That's like what my husband does, except it doesn't take an argument for him to act that way.

As soon as your well and he needs something he'll butter you up again, and you'll forget all about it ... until the next time. At least you have a child old enough to dial 911 if you can't call for help yourself.

wow maybe he thought u were faking it if it came on that sudden, thats why u should never fight with ur spouse, u never know when u really may need them

sorry to hear that, sometimes when people is hurt react in very mean ways. However in a pain situation (physical or emotional) you can find out how much he cares about you. Let him know once things had relaxed a little bit, how that made you feel and if there are chances to correct the situation. You have a big and for sure beautiful family, there are some sacrifices to do in order to keep it, but life itself is not supposed to be a sacrifice.

Hope you get better soon and good luck.

Men tend to have volatile tempers They don't like to have responsibility or feel "trapped" or committed So arguments start If possible go to counseling and learn some fair fighting techniques Having a big family can be strssful too.

Leave his sorry A@@!!!!!

Tell your husband to get his priorities straight. What was he doing, watching foot ball while you need to go to the hospital? Seriously. Guys suck. And what's worse is you had kids with this joke! Bet this isn't the first time a fight like this has gone on. Let your husband know that you love him, but he has to start being more mature and put you first no matter what. So he could be mad at one of your kids, if one of them gets some random sickness and needs to be taken to the hospital, is he just going to let them lay on the floor too? That's pathetic. Re-evaluate who you chose to marry, dude.