Should my best friend and i take this risk?

once you do it you'll fall mega hard for him and he still will be interested in the other chick, while hooking up with you. its a ticket to pain and i would just continue staying friends especially since hes the one iffy and your more eager. wait until the day he makes the initiative and tells you he likes you, for now practice makes perfect find someone hot.

Consider this decision very carefully. Sex for guys and girls mean different things. That is not a bad thing it is just the way it is. Your relationship will change and it is highly likely your feelings will change. Whether people want to admit it or not there is a bond that takes place during sex. Girls often feel like they are giving something-themselves, their feelings. Boys tend to see sex as a fun thing to do. If everyone is ok, then no harm/no foul, right? I wish it was that easy. It is possible after you do hook up that he will think you are a great source for hooking up when he doesn't have anyone else to hook up with...and since you are friends he will think it is ok to assume that. By then you may have realized that the friend-friend hook up messes with your heart and don't want to do it again. Then things get weird. The friendship will die, most likely. You may even start being jealous of his girlfriends and stuff. I cannot explain why this happens but somehow it does. No matter how much you tell yourself it is just fun and you can handle it something happens after the hook up and you do feel differently. Think this over for a long time before you do anything. Also, discuss with other girls and see how they felt. As I said guys see sex differently so they wont be much help to you :)

Best wishes!

YES, it will change everything SPECIALLY since he likes this other girl.

Don't play with fire because you will get burnt.

Just be happy with what you have. If it's not broken, don't fix it.

it will change..as soon as he hop in..