How Do I get Rid of Him?

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This kid is a major pest. I've been his friend since the beginning of the year and he tries to make me feel guilty about everything. For Example; on the phone if I have to go he whines and complains that he'll be all lonely. And if I'm not paying attention to him every waking moment that I'm around him he'll sit in a corner and act depressed and then later act like nothings wrong when I'm talking to him. He obviously likes me...cos he's told me he's in love with me on the phone and has tried to guilt me into it but I've said no so many times that it's impossible to keep track. He's lied to me about having sex. And he told me he thinks he might have a STD! So that basically crosses him off my list, like he ever was. But he doesnt get the picture that I don't like him back. He literally hangs over my shoulder at lunch and breaths down my neck, and he threatened to commit suicide( the weird thing is two days b4 homecoming I had a dream he commited suicide, the letter and the threat happened on Oct. 24th) the same day he gave me a letter asking me out. He interupts me when I'm talking to somebody else and expects me to worship him. I can't stand it any longer. My brother has told me to just tell him to piss off, but that's really unchristian and i could never do that. He leaves these terrible messages on my phone that says that he'll die if I don't call him back, I don't call him back! But it's annoying, I've been trying to avoid him for awhile but it doesn't work, he gets jealous whenever I hangout with my guy friends and even when I walk in the halls with my brother. ( Okay I have to admit my brother is pretty good looking. But the kid doesn't know he's my brother, we mite have some fun with that later. lol if u know what I mean) But he calls after nine, which my friends and i consider socially unacceptable. He doesn't respect the fact that I have a boyfriend, a really big boyfriend. He annoys me and my friends, and I've had a few dreams where he holds a gun to my head  and if i dont say yes to i love him then he'll kill me and myself. So I'm in a shitty situation, what should I do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Wow..that sounds horrible. You honestly need to just let this guy go. If he doesn't respect you and your decisions then he shouldn't even be in your life. Just talk to him and if he tries to make you feel guilty or threatens his life just know that he is trying to manipulate you and get attention. Don't put up with it. If he still won't leave you alone, then maybe get your brother/friends/boyfriend involved. and if he STILL won't back-off then you might need to get some serious reinforcement because that could lead to stalking lol

Anonymous · Answer

You can't really get rid of it. But i would start with finding a new hobby. And stop writing so much on the computer. Do physical activities with your friends. Set a goal for yourself to only stay on the computer for two hours then cut down every month. It could save you a few bucks on the electric bill!!! ;). Basically find something else to do, if you can't look at what movies are coming on, what events that sound kinda cool. Be out there instead of inside here.

: D · Answer

well first. you need to just remember that he is a human, he does have feelings. and obviously he likes you. having the idea that its ok to tease him not ok. People do die. and when he says he will kill him self he may be serious. or he may not. but the one thing you dont do is insult him or hurt his feelings so that he will leave you alone. just be nice to him about it. say that your in a relationship and that him nagging at you is casuing problems toward that relationship. you sound like a somewhat nice person i think you can handle being nice to the kid. but having nightmares is not ok for you. if this continues you need to talk to someone. so take it slowly. just be nice. and god willing everything will work out. i hope i could help you : )

gdeadhead166 · Answer

Tell the kid off. I'm sure he's a wuss and won't commit suicide. If all else fails, make out with your brother in front of him.

ALSO INDENT PARAGRAPHS LADY.

moegold2000 · Answer

kindly tell him to bug off, if you think he is suicidal tell him you are going to tell someone how he is acting, make sure you tell that you are going tell how goofy he is acting.

Anonymous · Answer

You should stop waiting for him to get the picture..and talk to him..in a really serious way..Take your boyfriend with you

nickipettis · Answer

he has threatened to kill himself. 
you solve your problem by doing the healthy, caring thing - you tell HIS parents that you are worried about his health, and you save some of the phone recordings where he is talking about suicide, or STDs to let them hear what he is saying.

then, it is their problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Ummmm...... tell him to get the **** away from you and that your boyfriend will beat him up.  And hopefully your bf CAN beat him up. If he whines, tell him to grow up.

nelly p · Answer

the best thing to do is act as if u love him n take him to a counselor because that isnt healthy for him n it isnt fair for you

Anonymous · Answer

The only thing to do...let him down and let him hard down the only way he is going to get it is being mean and rude if you have already tried to be nice about it...and dont feel bad about it at all its not your fault he is a pest

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