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When guys ask my phone number or touch me....?
I hung out with people(doctors, I am not a doctor) from work at the first time. I was fine that we danced dirty, but I did not like it when each of tham touched me and kissed me when I danced with different guys. They are like 20 years older than me. I regret now because I should have said something. What should I say next time when I do not like being touched by a guy? and What should I politely say when I was asked to give out my phone number and I do not want to? We see each others at hospital.
17 Answers
- ?Lv 45 years ago
It seems like he might be interested in you! you should get to know him by being his friend, so maybe ask if he has a facebook if you do you could start that way. Or just straight up say you want his number. Or when you see him a conversation that will last a while and is interesting, so he'll want to keep talking later or whatever. Hope this helps
- 1 decade ago
Say, "Hey guys, I really like coming here and having a good time, but it makes me uncomfortable when you guys put your hands all over me and kiss me while I'm dancing. Could you lay off a little and give me some space please?".
When you don't want to give out your phone number to someone, simply say, "Sorry I don't give out my phone number to just anyone." If they press you further, then just ignore them. If they harass you, call security or go get the bouncer.
- ScSpecLv 71 decade ago
Good grief. You don't dance dirty with dirty old men cause then they think you are sleazy and want to be touched. So don't get in this kind of situation again, go out with people you know and trust. No one should touch you and if they do, tell them hands off, then leave!
- 1 decade ago
If you don't like how someone is touching you, tell them STOP. It's important to get the point through even if you work with these guys. Tell them to stop politely but forcefully at first. If they continue, yell it and don't care. With the phone numbers, simply say "I don't like giving my phone number out" or "I'd rather not give my phone number out". Hope this helps!
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell them you don't appreciate them touching you like that and that they are going far ahead. If they ask you for your number just tell them you don't feel comfortable and that you hope they understand. Even give them the reasons if you have to.
- 1 decade ago
just politely say im sorry but i don't feel comfortable right now and walk away..they'll understand.. and about the number just say i don't know you well enough..or make a joke about it and be like so now your getting all the ladies phone numbers ay?
good luck!
Source(s): just advice and experience - 1 decade ago
tell them:
"hey, look i am sorry but, i need space. literally i have a BUBBLE and you are kinda making it so its on the verge of popping right now."
then when they try to kiss you turn so they kiss your cheek and say:
"your such a great friend"
its a kinder way to let them know your not interested.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Say no, or dont... quietly so you dont make a big scene right away, but loud enough they hear.. they should leave you alone, if not say it louder and maybe give them a light push away with your hand.
- 1 decade ago
just tell the guys to back off tell them that you have a boyfriend or something. or have your close guy friends to come with you.
- sum1wonLv 51 decade ago
Politely declining is the right idea. "Thank you, but I'm not interested in that right now" should be sufficient.