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I would like to hear from MEN?

I have always been more comfortable around men as friends. Well my fiance' doesn't like it one bit. He said that he doesn't trust other men, but he trusts me. I have only one female close friend and she's not around often because she works. Men, why is it that you don't want your ladies to have male friends? You should trust your partner not the friends.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I am not sure its so much a trust issue its knowing how men think. More than likely your male friends would jump your bones in a heart beat. And on the other side of that you have, how much are you talking to your male friends and what are you saying?. Think about it this way. If your husband only had female friends how would you react?

  • 1 decade ago

    Insecurities in men will cause this. He does trust you but does not trust that you could resist one of these other guys if they came onto you. The best thing to do is to make him one of the group, he'll feel more comfortable with you hanging out with them, if he knows them on a level of friendship and not just as an aquatints through his Fiance'. The better he knows these guys the more he'll trust your friendships with them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, but if I did, I wouldn't care at all if she had male friends. Dies he have any fremale friends? If so, point out to him the he is being very hypocritical, and why should he expect that you should trust him with them, if he doesn't trust you with your male friends?!

  • 1 decade ago

    Because guys are after one thing, and only that one thing. Even if you are just friends with them, they are trying to get into your pants, no matter what they tell you. Unless they are gay

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