Is this the real deal or is this just a right now thing? Both gender opinions wanted.?

This is the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship. For the first 6 months to a year or so, everything will seem absolutely perfect. In this, and almost all relationships.

So, take it one day at a time and enjoy every step of it. If you feel the same way in six months, a year, whatever, you'll know it's the real thing.

As much as I'd love to say that you could know if something was the real thing after two months, I'd be lying to you.

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Here it iz!

Can I be real for a minute? If what you all have is the deal then you wouldn't have to ask us would ya? This is just puppy love, but if you two get freaky you'll make a baby not a puppy so keep your clothes on! Diapers, formula, and all that crap is EXPENSIVE! Besides, sometimes even the "nice guys" have a way of disappearing after they do the deed so don't screw up your life just cuz you got an itch!

You are in what people call the "honeymoon stage" of your realtionship..google it you'll get more info. but i know plenty of people who were in love in high school. just take your time, if you want to have sex with him go for it, it will only make the relationship stronger. but some may say take your time ahving sex and wait a few months. either way, im very happy for you!!!

theres a million people like that in the world that you will meet. im not saying he's not right for you, but im also not saying he's the perfect one for you. becuase i was with a guy like that.and then i found out about his past. he used to actually call me and treat me like his queen.haha. i think that you should wait at least another month before being for sure.becuase if you decide that this is it right now, then you will be borken SOOOO hard if it ends.

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It is great to hear that you respect your body. It is very normal for people who like each other to behave the way you guys do.

Remember you both are very young and you have the whole world ahead of you. The sky is the limit, reach for the stars.

Yeah it must be nice.... but never think guys are forever. your in the 11th and hes in the 12th... he'll leave school before you. been there done that....12th graders are sneaky. just go with the flow cause only time can tell. Be patient.

its hard to tell if he is the one.... really i wouldnt worry about that. just see how things go for the next couple of years. dont marry untill youve been with someone for several years. thats my opinion anyways. good luck!

I think it could be. It seems he wants you for you. he's sayin when your ready he'll have sex and that the most inportant thing. you guys seem like you are already engaged i was suprised ya'll are in H.S

Real deal

real, it seems like he really respects you, so that's a good sign.