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Im a 23 year old VIRGIN in LOVE with his BEST FRIEND'S lil SISTER! what should I DO?

To start off im almost 23... Anyways for years my best friend's 2 younger sisters have had crushes on me and I have always looked the other way even though my friend made it clear that he didn't care if I dated the older of the two I still kept away. He has moved to another state and the last few times he has been back home I have realized while being around his sisters who have been my friends too that the younger sister (my friend's half sister like that makes any difference) may very well be my soulmate from what I have discovered (you know the saying "you just know" but its more than that). She has a boyfriend but she still shows interest in me and years ago I gave myself a dating rule (one of many) that I would never get involved with a girl who has a boyfriend. To make matters worse is our age difference which is quite a few years but as I clearly stated Im a virgin and for her I could wait 23 more years for her if I had too. Their family likes me and her parents are sort of "free spirits" in which I believe that their only problem would be our age if they even would have that problem, hell I would take all of our parents on a date with us if that is what it would take. Do any of you have any advice for me? Shes all i ever think about anymore and im going stir crazy because at the moment I have no one to really talk to about my situation and by noone I mean no girls to give me advice about these things, because Im trying to keep this on the down low. And all me other guy friends are always like dude screw everything that moves in which I don't want to be like that! I just know Shes the One! so what should I say to her, her sister and her brother??? Because I don't have a freaking Clue!?!?! Im afraid her brother and sister might have a major problem with this because she likes me too and he "says" he dont agree with guys and the whole age thing in which I think he was just trying to use that to get out of a relationship in which he didnt like. JESUS HELP ME!!! Oh and by the way my life is so screwed up as in bad things seem to always happen to me and I have such a hard time I really dont think I could take her rejection but I don't want to lose her to someone else!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Is she still in high school?

    Because if so that's kind of a problem... you would probably want to wait for her to at least turn 18 and see what happens. Especially if she has a boyfriend.

    If she really is your soulmate things will probably work out but you have to tell her how you feel to see if she feels the same! Or else your just wasting your time when you could find someone more age appropriate.

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    5 years ago

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